Ripping

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I lost my virginity about 2 months ago and I've been having sex regularly since then, we use lots of lube but it still hurts when he first starts to enter me, I've got a little tear that wont heal, we waited a couple of weeks and as soon as we had sex again it tore. He's very gentle and it does stop hurting after the first 20 seconds.Is there anythin we can do? I'm pretty such hes thicker than average as I measured and it was just under 6 inches around

Do you guys do a lot of foreplay before hand, and if your nervous that would be tigntning you up as well.

yeh we do and I'm definetely not nervous

hmmm, he might just be to big for you?

I know this post is a little old...but I hope your still checking it! 1st of all babies come out of there, not all that gracefully but out they come all the same. Women have been healing from it forever. So it really isn't his size.You may not have given yourself enough time to thoroughly heal, as it can take as long as 4 weeks. Occasionally I still tear during rough, passionate sex, and I have been active for 15 yrs, and had 2 babies. Keep using the lube and keep it gentle. I think in enough time you will get used to his size.

thanks for the advice, I think I'll make sure to wait a while