In reply to: we'r from different cultures & i used to hate her culture Your Morrocon right? Of the Arab variety? So is she Berber or something?So like your culture doenst like punctuation and spelling aye? No wonder your in the third world.You say I know nothing. Well I know what your "girlfreind" told me and it sounds like she's better without you. If its because of your culture then, well, she's better with whoever is her culture. Though I'm sure there are people in your culture who actualy know how to behave like a man and will treat her right.
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Is it a right decision?help
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Morroco, Tangiers is in Morroco.
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I see...So a white-boy and an Egyption in relationship, living in Tangiers, Morroco? Odd.And if, as a Ducthman, who hated Arab culture why move to Morroco? And when when did putting up with insults have anything to do with adapting to Dutch culture...and surely he should be adapting to Arab culture anyway.Oh my the plot thickens. I await its clarification with great anticipation.
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guys,don't be hard on him ok? well straping younglad,we have the same story that u have posted a while ago,we met eachother online, we r from different countries, by the way we're not kids,i'm 22 he's 23 ..in our age in our somehow near cultures & religion,we're not called kids,in fact he's working as u wana do straping younglad,to get enough money to come to my country to engage me,& that i respect very much in him,he's reading much in history & stuff,he's smart in pc stuff,but i know he has a bit lack of experience with persons,so he's a bit agressive if he feels someone is challenging him or blaming him,like he said ,when he gets angry,he's the kind of person who can destroy anything in his hand then after a minute he's calm again, which i'm not, i get angry slowly but when someone gets me really angry which means he's done so wrong,i don't get back normal& calm that easy , u see the issue? he gets angry alot then he get calm in the same time,if i got angry,i won't get calm that fast. plus i wont call him names if i'm angry coz i'm aware of my acts all the time,but he can call names then when he's calm he asks me to forget about them which is something i can't do all the time..about my lack of self esteem,angle witch, i didn't get happy cause of what u all said coz i already told him much times about what u all said, what i was happy for , is that he moved & did something about it,u know what i mean? i always have hope in him cause i believe he's a good guy,& i really hope we have a nice life away from troubles cause we both got board of those many fights..
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i would like to see a pic of you, i bet you're no stunner either
Actualy you can cos this guy very handly included a link to his website in his profile *claps*
take a look at his photo gallery
Looks like a bunch of European expats. Cant be sure which of those guys is this guy of course, but theres two guys who look like brothers hehe.
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You do now live in the same city right?
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well , he's the berber , i'm from Egypt .he thinks like so many people as i see u think that too,that we're bunsh of ignorants or violent native people, i wana just tell u , u won't be knowing that we're not from america or europe if we didn't say it . i think he must know that every culture every country has its positive & their negative points , and i'm sure as anyone's sure that the negative & bad points of the society appears always before & more than the good things. so he mustn't judge me or my family or my culture wrongly ,cause of some people who behave bad or are illetrate which i myself am embaressed by the bad poeple who also belong to the same culture, which is something u all do, who isn't embaressed by ignorants & thiefs & killers in his society & who wants to be judged as if he was one of them ?
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well , thank u for being so interested about our story , but i don't think this gives u the right to trace our IP adresses ,right?
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Actually he's the administrator of this site, he can do as he pleases.And please stop taking everything people are saying here as an attack. You came here asking for advice and people gave it to you, and now you are taking offense to it. Take what people say for what it's worth. If you don't agree than ignore it, but don't attack back either. Personally I think what your BF has done was wrong and childish but only you can determine if he is worth the effort. If so than only you have to deal with the consequences.
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Hey! I never said you were ignorant barbarians, it is very clear in my posts that I talking specifically about him and his arragonce . I will not tolerate words put in my mouth by anyone.
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relax hon, helms wasn't doing anything sinister! as part of his admin duties he can see IP addresses or something like that, anyway hes not the kinda guy to do anything nasty.OK, i take onboard all the stuff you have said, and you defend him very well. I met my husband online, nearly 10 years ago, married last year. Whether you met online, he comes from another country blah blah blah you are obviously NOT happy with the way he treats you...............you don't sound like either of you intend to do anything about it, so there is no point arguing too and fro about it.
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i didnt attack u . i didnt defend either , what we os just talk to eachother ,right? well , straping younglad,i was just simplyfing things to u that's all, i didnt say u think im this & that,what i said is i think u think this & that.& u said no u dont think , so i'm glad you're an open minded person,
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& i'm sorry for the adminstrator though i don't think he can puplish our places if we didn't say it , he could have asked first,& he might have checked my answer .. though it's allowable to give false information about myself in web world,for it's full of hackers & bad people as much as good ones ,don't u think ? thanks for your opinion really , i will think about the possible sequences
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Np it happens. And don't worry the admin can only see the origin of you IP address, nothing more and trust me he wouldn't do anything malicious with the information.Good luck to you hun, hope it all works out for you.
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i'm berber & she 's arab so we've a lot of differences but we belong to the same religion i speak her language she doesn't speaks mine all i think is we both can't stop fighting cause my style is more close to western one than the oriental one
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i'm basicly berber descnedent from an andalucian family ( southern spain ) so what u call the third world brings civilization to u time teh modern civilization is originated from the rich culture of andalucia & teh barbarians in one time were u let me remind u the genocide the spanish did against us & the forced exile to my ancestors just because of their religion
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well , i'm oriental , & u guys r western. i have alwayes been treated so good from oriental people,with respect & understanding , & i know that its also the way that western people treat their ladies ..how you should treat people has no relation with a place or a community,it depends on the person's mind basicly , right ?
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Everyone else said it for me basically. You were absolutley right. And you yourself know that you're not ugly. So that's good. insert thumb up