I'm a guy, and a lot of girls tell me that I have committment issues, and it seems like that a lot of the guys have this issues. I thought about this for a long time, and I finally realized why we guys are afraid of committment, and that reason is because of you girls!!! Before you say that i'm biased against woman, consider this, while a minority of men are afraid of committment because they like to sleep around. Honest guys like me, we are afraid of committment because most of us have been deeply hurt by a girl, or many girls. I for one was hurt deeply when my gf, the one that I truly loved, decided to break up with me for no apparent reason, she found another guy and broke up with him two weeks later. I loved her so much, and it really hurts when she left, so now I am afraid of getting too deeply involved with another girl, because I don't ever want to go through that painfull experience again. And that is the reason, why guys are afraid of committment, because no one likes to be hurt. I also understand lots of the girls have experienced this, too. So i'm not blaming the girls for this, i'm just simply explaining why a lot of us, guys, and girls for that matter, are afraid of committment. Wouldn't you agree?
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Why men are afraid of committment!!!
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Not all guys have that fear. Your reason for it is not something I can answer for you. I think it's something you'll have to search yourself for.
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Who said all men are?
Iv been living with my fiance for over a year, shit nearly 1 and a half and I have been engage to her for even longer then that.
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exactly. This commitment thing is just another sexist and biast thing, women are afraid of commitment too.
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I agree. I hate how it's now okay to bash men. I mean a joke once in a while in good fun is fine, as is a joke about women once in a while all in good fun. But things are just going too far.If the guy doesn’t want to marry you it isn’t always because he’s a guy. And if you don’t want to marry someone, it isn’t always because you’re a guy.
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yup. I mean i can take jokes because i dish them out like theres no tomorrow. but when someone seriously blames shit on guys because we are guys that pisses me off.
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It is especially irritating because I have kids. I don't want either of them thinking less, or requiring less, of themselves because they are one gender or another.
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Im horrified of commitment, and im a girl. everyone has equal issues
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well one good thing is that today it seems theres less of that. i think it was worse back in the day when women stayed home and men worked. Now that everyone is doing everything it seems people have mellowed and are seeing men and women as they are
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ditto
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Has it not occured to you man that Women get hurt emotionally by guys too?Anyway I'm not afraid of commitment, I just happen to have no interest in it for the moment.