Ok so I have a girlfriend that i love very very dearly and this fall we will be heading off to college together. Well sunday we had sex for our first time together (neither of us are virgins...shes 17 and i just turned 18 monday) and it was absolutely amazing just we were under time constraints with her rents coming home soon....any ways she came over tuesday and things got going and we were having sex again and ive realized i just cant feel with the sensitivity that i think that i should have....and all in all i have never cum while having sex, ive had to use my hand in front of her but i kno she is frustrated as well as i am because i cant cum while having sex or while getting head....and thats another thing is that i cant even cum then....what is wrong with me? i need help and fast because shes absolutely amazing and the love of my life but i hate for her to be frustrated because i cant cum for her without using my own assistance......any suggestions are welcome!! thanks in advance!nighthawk88
i think when us blokes masterbate, we can be quite rigerous, if thats a word, and we know what to do when we want to cum, and we are probably pumping alot harder and faster than we think.So im thinking that in ur case, maybe when you receive head it just might not be enough pressure, force, speed, wat ever you wanna call it... am i heading in the right direction.....? Or could it be something less physical, like feeling uncomfortable or tense?
It's probably because your body is used to your masturbation technique. It will have to get used to the different feeling of sex, but this should happen eventually. You can try not masturbating for a few days before.