How to orgasm and masterbate

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ok so im new to this site and im 12 and i dont know if i have masterbated or not how do you orgasm?plz help i feel stupid asking this questionand i have never had sex b4 and i read that you should use a toothbrush but i dont know if i should bcuz im a virgin--thx

Welcome to A2A! Don't feel stupid asking any questions - it's why we're here!Masturbation is all about making yourself feel good. One thing you should know is that just taking an object and thrusting it in and out of your vagina probably wont feel good and maybe well darn painful since you're a virgin. What most women find that works is clitoral stimulation. Use a finger or the smooth part of an electrical toothbrush gently on your clitoris, relax and see if you like it. Play around, explore and dicover what feels good. Once you found that magic spot, it's only a matter of time until you orgasm , and when you do you'll know it because it's explosive and feels nothing like anything else!

I hope that nobody minds me replying as i`m male, but first of all you need to practice experimenting on yourself.
To start with don`t masturbate with the thought of having an orgasm, concerntrate on finding what feels good to you.
Firstly use your fingers, try different speeds and different pressure, then you can try using objects.
When you`ve found the best way to do it to yourself, do it for longer and hopefully you should have your orgasm.

Nup, ur male thats it get out!jks im male too

uhm...im pretty sure I have orgasimed b4..but I just wanted to ask to make sure...what's it feel like...how do you know it's in orgasim?

Did any of you catch the part where this poster identified herself as a 12 y/o female? Has it ever occurred to any of you that - 1. This is probably a 40 year old pervert who lives in his mother's basement.2. If it really is a 12 year old female as indicated, sexual discussions such as this are illegal, not to mention just downright sick. Tell her to go ask her Mother if she needs some advice.

Wow, I guess you told me. You are right. It is not illegal for 12 y/o to come here and talk about sex. What is illegal is for adults to enter into that conversation in a way that is deemed sexually explicit.Since this forum does seem to mind giving medical advise without the appropriate credentials, I guess I shouldn't be surprised that you also have erroneous beliefs about the legality of adults discussing sexual issues with unrelated minors. For example - if my 12 year old daughter walked next door to my neighbors house, and while there he gave her advice about masturbation (without the parents consent or knowledge), would that be illegal? In all 50 states, the answer is yes. What is fundamentally different about what you are doing?I really don't care what you do with those of legal age. My concern is that a child identified herself as 12 y/o, and no red flags went up. Eplicit sexual conversation with a 12 y/o by an non custodial adult is one step towards prison.

Hey cybercop... What you don't realize is that most of the members here are kids/teens themselves. Many older members do, in fact, weigh the age of the poster before responding. It would be the responsible thing to do. I personally don't/won't advise kids on sexual issues, but others may have no problem with it. At least it is a rather controlled environment with some checks and balances, where people can get some information.As far as medical advice, this site does have a disclaimer that no one here is a medical doctor. Advice is based on life experience and often, people are referred to check with their doctor, especially for non-obvious issues. Sexual predators/perverts are a constant concern. However, we have a hard time keep tabs on these issues unless they are self reported to us by members. Thanks for your concern.

In reply to:For example - if my 12 year old daughter walked next door to my neighbors house, and while there he gave her advice about masturbation (without the parents consent or knowledge), would that be illegal?In all 50 states, the answer is yes.Could you cite the governing federal and/or state statutes?

Let's clear up some things. "Cybercop" is not a cop. Nor is he a lawyer. His knowledge of US law (he doesn't seem to be aware of the rest of the world) doesn't even extend to the First Amendment.It is not illegal to give sex advice to minors without parents' consent, unless that is part of a process of seduction - that is, with a bad intent. Administrators and moderators want to know about anyone who acts on this forum in a predatory manner, but incorrect blanket statements by self-appointed moralisers are of no help.

Did you think he was a real cop?