ok so i was wondering if when you have sex without your period if you can get pregnant?
lol im like stupid
Yes, you definately can.
On an average 28 day menstrual cycle, your ovulating (able to get pregant) generally ANY time in it. you are LESS likely, but still capable of getting pregnant while on your period.
You can get pregnant if you have sex in the month before you have (or would have had) your first period. (This is because you have your first ovulation before your first period.) Since you don't know when your first period will be, it isn't safe to have unprotected sex before your periods start.
In any case, don't feel you need to rush things. Take your time, and learn about social relationships first before getting onto sexual ones.