Is this unhealthy?

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Well I'm here for my own beneift more than anyone elses, but if I help anyone else along the way as I grow and learn then so be it.I am here to chat and meet interetsing people though...I guess my life is probably less exciting than yours

how about you read what i said to him.. maybe you didnt notice mine cause i wasnt telling him he deserved to get his ass kicked or calling him names.

That's funny...I always thought you were part of the 'in crowd'.As for the OP. After his thread about being angry and beating people up. And then not wanting to take anyone's advice, I find it hard to even believe him.

So when he comes asking a question you should doubt him? No you help him with what he asked. And it's funny how I only talk to 2 people on this entire website. Only one of them often. And its also funny how he is the only person I feel i can confide in on here.. that I can't even post things on here because I don't feel ..safe(for lack of better words) posting because i know i'd get shredded to pieces.

I did notice what you said to him. And out of respect, I just went back an reread your comments to him. All good and healthy and helpful I'm sure. But more needed to be said.What is it about this guy that you think needs to be so vehemently defended?

I dont feel he should be defended. I also feel i shouldnt HAVE to defend anybody on this site.. WHAT is this site? A place where someone comes without being judged.. where they are to afraid to ask someone in person so they turn here for advice/answers.

Why should we not be judged? That is a common misconception actually. But it's really not possible to not judge.Judge: To form an opinion or estimation of after careful consideration.Sounds like a rational thing to do, in my estimation. I judged him based on what I've read here. If I've misjudged him, it's because he's misrepresented himself. That's his problem, not mine.Is it possible you've misjudged me or others you're complaining about?

Sure man, but people need to be able to ask for help when they need it.In this particualr case I'm not altogether theres anything he actualy wants help with.

I'll make you guys a deal.If our friend will repost his question, minus the bragging, disrespect, and useless details about the brother, I'll give him a helpful, respectful answer.

My friend? No man I dislike him as much as you.

How was he disrespectful?

i was not bragging and have nor ever had any intentions on bragging... you know what, im sorry that ive caused every buddy this unwanted anger, and unneeded ranting and yelling at everyone, all i wanted to know was simply if it was unhealthy to have sex so many times in a short amount of time, i was never bragging, and for whoever said that they find it hard to believe me after me posting my anger issue and "not taking anyones advice" thats bull, i have taken peoples advice, im attending counseling and i have reframed myself from talking ghetto as much as i could...i came here looking for help, and to compare myself to other people because i had self concious issues, after this thread idk what to think anymore, this is supposed to be a nice place, honestly some of the nicest people that have been cool with me on here dispite everything is INELIGIBLE and Pink, even tho i do believe this is her debut on one of my posts, why would i need to lie to any of you or brag... why would i need to impress someone i most possibly would never meet? and why would i need to lie to people ill never see. honestly my opinion about alot of people and about the way this board is, has changed, because i see most of the same people insulting people. i cant fucking help that im good at sex(its not bragging) this shit is a curse, dispite what all of u think, i get my girlfriends friends asking me to let them fuck me, because my girlfriend went bragging, do you know how annoying it is having every1 in your girlfriends school knowing how big your dick is!!! or asking you to fuck them!!! i feel like shit, i mean why cant people notice the fact that im muscular or sweet or play football! no its OMG you have a golden rod!!! i feel like chopping this shit off getting it bronzed and handing it to my girlfriend and saying "there babe now u dont fucking need me on top of you all the time" SHEESH I WANNA FUCKING CUDDLE,AND READ POEMS, TAKE ROMANTIC BATHS, AND KISS UNDER THE MOONLIGHT. FUCK!!!!! AND IF ANYONE THINKS I WAS BRAGGING ABOUT ANYTHING I SAID I WASINT, HONESTLY I WAS FUCKING RANTING ON ABOUT IDK WHAT. AND IM SORRY. WHY NOT LETS HAVE A POLL TO SEE IF I SHOULD KEEP POSTING OR NOT, BECAUSE ALLOT OF YOU HAVE BAD IMPRESSIONS ABOUT ME. IF IM VOTED TO STOP POSTING ANY ADVICE I WOULD NEED WILL BE GIVEN TO ME BY INELIGIBLE, HES THE ONLY ONE THATS REALLY HERE FOR ME!!! eDIT and also i wanna thank all the positive feedback i got from I got a question post... i didint open that till juust now.

My Debut? Ive been here for over 3 years.But you're right.. I know exactly how you feel

i meant debut as in one of the first times ive seen u post in one of my threads.

1. No. It's not healthy for a kid your age to be having sex as much as you say you are having it.

2. No. You should not stop posting here. You should just learn some basic social skills and respectful ways to ask questions, offer your input, and have fun.

In reply to: How was he disrespectful? I wasn't so much saying he was being disrespectful to me or anyone else on the board (although he certainly has been guilty of that before). I was referring to his incredible disrespect for his gf's family, especially her dad.

it says to pink but it's really for every one. i thoguht awhile if i was going to put in my crap.. i dk.. looks liek i am (unless i deleted it in a secound)pinks brought up alot of things that i feel. mostly about how it's called afraid to ask.. bla bla.. i have questions too and like pink there is some one here that i ask them too. inliguble has been cool with me and i dk wtf is going on with diver...he's not been doing well.. Lance i scool too anyway.. i'll be honust the only reason i come is to keep in cantack with inliguble and helms... who r the only 2 i know 4 sure give a shit. i also get wut u were saying about how people may see u in a way. i know me and u have clashed heads.. i will talk to anyone that is willing to talk back to me. i try not to keep grudges. but i don't forget either. i still reemeber how 7 wants 10 liked to hurt my feelings but i would talk to him right now if he IMed me. Same as u pink or anyone else...anyway I know u think i'm a whinny BSer but .. it's people's choice to believe wut they want too.no one can make another personthink anything. the thinkg about u (and others on here ) is u have the balls (well u don;t have balls I hope.. ok so guts..) to say wut u feel. i wish i could dso that!i wish that i had never came here and said anything about my rape but i did and i dk if i would have got profesional help or told about any of the other if i hadn't.. u know i dk..thisis just how it happend. I thinkit was meant for me to met diver 4 a reason..but if i hadn;t then wut was going on in the past would still be going on. this isn;t really the place to be sayingall this but.......well yeah.i dk wut to say to the poster. i have spent the night with a female friend. she's stayed over at my house thougsands of times. i have had gf's stay over and i have stayd at there house. we were in didffent rooms yeah. but i knwo when the parents are sound asleep u can have sex with out them knowing. i want to say more but every one here knows i suck at this... well unless ur diver and u can talk calab language In reply to: is it unhealthy that about every weekend me and my girlfriend make love, not once, usually not twice, but most of the time close to 6-10 times in the weekend, i spend the night at her house and her mom and dad dont care, either they don't care OR they don't know..... that's all i'm sayingabout this. In reply to: WHAT is this site? A place where someone comes without being judged.. i feel i'm beign judged every secound of hte day... every thing i say.. every letter that i type....I agree but u once judged me. I forgive, but i don't forget.

Actually I dont have a problem with you at all.

I don't have a problem with many people on here. I just don't like the atmosphere and attitude of this place.

First off, I stand by every word I have said about this in this thread and the other one.Maybe it was not your intitention to brag but thats how it came off, atleast its how I read it.Secondly no one suggested you leave this forum.just because you got ripped in one thread is no reason to leave. Ther is more then one subject and I for one do not carry argutments from thread to thread unless it is something relevant to each other. This is one subject and this single thread is not the be all end all of the board. Your not one of the trouble makers who does nothing but post bullshit and adds to th threads by making simple posts like lol for an entire comment or a bunch of fucking emotes.Take what people have said, filter it and keep some as knoledge and forget the parts that do not apply to you.You shouldnt feel like your being pushed out and off the board I dont see where anyone is calling for your head or your ass.In the future I would simply look at yur post before you submit it and make sure it reads the way you intend it to read so noone can misunderstand the meaning behind it.I would knock the faggot shit off as well.