What will i do with my mom

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i need help with my mom (she is a druggi) and i am a little embaressed right now but i need advicehow do i get over the fact that i might grow up to be like my mom ppl always say that im exacly like her i dont want to be like her so how am i soposed to get over it is it okay to feel betrayed and want to do stuff that you arnt very proud off (drinking) i guss i just cracked plz help i need advice on how to get over it

Hi Champ. I just wanted to say, my mother is and was an alcoholic/drug addict. And because of all those things I forced myself to be the complete opposite, which was difficult at times.

Listen to Helmsman, he is really good with these types of problems. Good luck hun. :smile:

my life is okay i know that i might soud like i live in the geto but actually i live in the rich part of town and evrything and im 11 years old and i dont know what to do it is kind off more a amotionl thing thing than a phisical thing i cant get over it and im terafied that she might get caught that she will have to abandon me i dont want to her get caught a gain it allready happended am i scared that she will never see me i can already see her little enogh i have to have chiled soport ppl following us and crap and school is horrid but im sure evry kid says that

Tell your mom that you love her and that worried about her and your future.

Tell your mom to lay off the alcohol and smoke pot, I smoke with my mom it's fuckin' cool as hell. Quit looking for attention. Again how you haven't been banned is amazing to me. I hate to come across like I am being mean to you but I give up trying to be rational with you because it's pointless. You are going to say and do what you want anyways.

No, White Lines. He should not tell his mother that.I think he should turn to his mother and have a very serious discussion. Tell her how you feel and lay it all on the table. Tell her if she doesnt get help for herself you will get it for her.

there is a problem with that i baraly see her i do but i dont wnt to spend my only time with her talking about drugs and her and she wont let me iv tryed and she nows what im talking about then she stops it and changes the subject so what am i to do Casey Kistler

Your driving me batshit man!
seriously its easy for you to fix and to stop annoying me and isnt even anything really major.
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i dont need help anymore i found how you do it

In reply to:how do i get over the fact that i might grow up to be like my mom ppl always say that im exacly like herJust because you may resemble your mother in some ways doesn't mean you have to follow her path. You are not the same as her, and you can make your own decisions.

Not to be too personal, how much does she drink and what kind of drug(s) does she use? Some drugs are way more serious than others which may require a different approach.

Alcoholics Anonymous has a program called Alanon for wives and children of addicts and alcoholics. They are usually at churches and in association with AA meetings. Look in the phone book for Intergroup Services or Alcoholics Anonymous. There will be a number to call. The people on the other end have heard everything. Talk to your pastor or someone at your church if you feel you can trust or relate to them. YOu are not the only person out there with the same problem and help is availble but you have to ask and find it. I don't mean to be evasive or circumspect in my answer but this is not a "one size fits all" type problem. There is help and you are not alone.

i know my mom did crack and stuff and the house was preety bad she got in with wrong ppl i guess i think that it will be easer if i start from the beggining what happened was i lived with her and had no idea that she did drugs (my sisster could tell but i couldent i also think that having my sister find out about that and go through such a weird experince at a young age may be y she is such a screw up now)then i went on vacation to ihio 3 weeks later i come home and me and my sisster r living with my dad and seeing a children sycologist then i found out that she was doing drugs a month later and she got busted by selling drugs to an undercover cop and then i figred it out y she was always tired and ppl came over all the time and she would stay up all night and i new she smoked and i would wake up and it would be foggy in my house but she just told me that i should just go to school evan on weekends she told my sisster the same thing so it could be other stuff but all i know that she did was pot and other stuff that would get shought up the nose and she had to get tested for aids so mabey sharing needles in heroine im not sure P.S. she dont have aids thank god