I was wondering about this. My mom treats me... strangely, and it kind of freaks me out sometimes. Like, she loves me and all, but sometimes it seems too much, you know? Just maybe she could not be so, "OMFG I LOVE YOU SO MUCH" all the time.
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How does your mom treat you?
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hey bud I almost 21 and my mom is still like that. It bugs me and it is nice when I am alone and she is not there doing that.
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I think that's just a sign that she cares about you and some people tend to think about that a lot and bring it up. It's not a bad thing overall, but I get what you mean about it being annoying. The feeling that you're being treated like a bit of a child or just the fact that it's a little mushy and not very masculine of a thing to hear all the time makes this kind of annoying, especially for guys.
Just ask her nicely not to embarass you (even though that's probably not her intention) if she's saying it a lot in front of other people. Many people would envy you though, having a mom who they know does really care for them. A lot of people do have good parents, I think that I'm lucky to have as supportive of parents as I do, but the opposite is also true with many people.
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My mom treats me the same way, and I have to admit that most of the time I love it. At times is does get annoying though, so I just tell her, "mom, you are ruining my life" or "im not a baby anymore" in a pouty little voice. We laugh it off, but it gets my point across without hurting her feelings.
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my mom still calls me her baby.. brushed my hair out of my eyes... kisses my forhead (geeZ! did i jsut admit to that ) but she';s still cool.
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I love my mommy she always tells me how much she loves me and so on yet she's distant enough so it doesn't get to be too much.
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I love my mum, and I wouldn't change her for the world. But she annoys the SHIT out of me! She says the most stupid annoying things and publicly embarrasses me. I have had it for 16 years now, its not that I don't love her but I can't take it anymore. So when I am 18 I am joining the army just to get away. I doubt you have as many problems with your mum as I have with mine. So be happy
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In reply to:
"mom, you are ruining my life"
Oh my god my mom would cry if i said that to her!!
Me and my mother are sooo close.. I love her to death! I think we have the best friendship out of any of my friends.
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Really, even if you said it in a funny voice?Its almost like an inside joke with us- she knows im not serious. My mom is my best friend too. Moms make the best best friends- you know they'll never turn their back on you, and who else loves you as much as they do?
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Yeah.. and I know I can go to my mom for anything.. there is no better reassurance than that from a mother.
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My relationship with my mom has been interesting.I remember hearing my mom say on numerous ocassions that I "wouldn't take spoiling" when I was a kid. I guess that means she tried, but I didn't want to be spoiled. Probably pretty typical for a middle kid. But when I became an adult, moved away, it's like she tried to make up for it. Always wanting to buy me stuff, do stuff for me, whatever. Fortunately, I never took it for granted and didn't abuse it. I let her do enough to make her feel good (or sometimes I really needed what she was offering). The one thing she does that drives me bonkers is this type of "Idolizing" she does of me when we're around other people, extended family, etc. She acts like what I do or say is of utmost importance and that everyone should notice me. It's kind of embarassing. I don't like being pointed out like that. But I try to see what's behind it. She's proud of me. It would be wrong of me to deny her that, no?Besides, she makes this amazing chocolate pie...
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Me and my mom get along great......when we're not living in the same house....
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My mom and i are sort of close. I tell her about everything important in my life before anyone else, and she tells me what im doing is wrong lmao but she loves me a lot and tried to point me in the right direction. If it wasnt for her, i wouldnt where i am in life now.
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I so wish I had that sort of relationship that you all have with your mum and i say treasure it as you are so lucky. My Mum and I never really got on. There was never hugs when I was younger let alone telling me she loved me. SHe made sure I had clean clothes etc but there was no emotional imput from her. When I was getting married she didn't even come to choose my wedding dress with me my neighbour had to come and oh that hurt me a lot. Even on my wedding day she said she was glad to be rid of me. My parents moved abroad 8 years ago and even tho I am in my olden age she still can reduce me to tears. I hadn't seen her for 3 years and recently flew over to them and it was good for 2 days but then it was like it was too much trouble for me to be there. My Mum is very critical of me and the things I do although she isn't here and shouldn't really have a say she has a way of making me feel 8 again.Gosh sorry to waffle on guys I just think you are so lucky that your mums are open and love you so much. I am the same with my girls and kiss them and tell them I love them every day as I would hate my kids to ever feel like I have felt so enjoy it and even tho it may be embaressing it is a good thing to be loved.xx
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I hate the way my mum treats me most the time. I'm not allowed to have a fair argument with her, not shouting... just like a discussion. She tells me to shut up and that I'm not allowed to have my way. She calls me names "Bitch, spoilt, selfish, evil, cow, fucking bitch, shit head, black sheep of the family" all things like that.
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Hey my mom is well i think awesome se get along great and ya every parent is going to be like "OMGF I LOVE YOU" cuz ah she did pop you out...think about this if your parents didnt have you you wouldnt be here so get over it there your parents your stuck with them after 18 you can do wat you want but not untill then...and go easy one them when they make you feel like a baby cuz they just care ALOT...