hey i wanna know how does sex feel i realy want it im 12 i wanna feel what it is like can i use someting like a pen what can i use ?
SEX how does it feel
im guessing ur a girl b.c. u talked about the pen. but masturbating with pens,cucumbers vibrators nd other stuff is a little diff. than actual sex.
if u want to know if it hurts or feels good (masturbating) start by using a pen nd if that doesnt give u any pleasure try sumthing bigger...the handle of and ice cream scoop (that's only if u'll never use the scoop again!)
it doesnt hurt, but if u wnt to orgasm try the clit nd use ur fingers.....
and if ur a guy then just forget what i just wrote!!!!
It's okay to be curious, but in all honesty and all reality you won't know what it feels like until you actually have sex. At your age you have more than enough time to wait and fine out. There really is no rush. Once it's done, you can't undo it.
I suggest that if you're going to masturbate, especially at your age, you should stick with digital (your fingers) exploration. Do not put objects inside yourself, unless otherwise instructed (like tampons). Not only are they just a bad idea in general for exploration, you also run the risk of infections.
I saw the attack..I do have to agree, you are young.
However...Sticking stuff in there isn't going to tell you how sex feels. Use your fingers, and play with yourself and figure out what feels good to you..
if your after orgasm..learn where your parts are, and play with your clitoris.
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Ouch!! Definetly wouldn't recommend the pen.. I cringe just thinking of it!! o0o0
I'd hold off on the thought of actually HAVING sex.. The closest thing you might be able to experience is by masturbating. Im sure you can find threads on here that can help you out with that.
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it feels like ... warm apple pie!
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A lot of the enjoyment a girl gets from sex comes from the chemicals that the brain releases during intimacy. By using objects and the like, you'll get a vague idea of what it's like but you won't really know until you have sex. I also think you should wait. Besides, there are lots of things you can do before you get to that point. Like study up on this website. When you do get to that point, find someone you really care for and try to be sure that he cares for you too. That's the kind of person you want to lose your virginity to.
Damn kids, i did not even know what jickin off was till i was 13. But sex what the hell was sex? i had no clue. But then i was not 12 and had a name like fucking sexeybunny. I hate to say it but you sound like future whore, have a nice life.
Sounds like you were just deprived of information. If curiosity makes someone a whore, then human nature is just that.
yeah, i have to disagree. im 13 years old and i think about what sex would be like and what certain things r like but im not a whore. i just dont know what something is so i ask about it (sexual stuff) and im no whore....
There is no reason to attack her with negative comments because she is curious. Calling her a future whore is just down-right mean. If she gets taunted from a question on a site called "Afraid To Ask", why is the site here? (I am very fond of this site, and in no way saying it's bad) Wouldnt you want to try to answer their question as best you could without being rude? Either way,
Masturbation may feel good, but it is very much different from sex. As somebody said, I would experiment and see what feels good, but I would certainly suggest to wait until your body and mind develop further before seeing what sex really feels like.
Ya I agree with web, you can't call someone a future whore for being curious. Just because you were older when you first became curious doesn't mean anything.
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