So I've manually masturbated my boyfriend and I've even gone down on him but he stops me before I can finish and says "Wow.... I'm really close." The first time he said it I thought it was a cue to grab the washcloth I had stashed but he just won't let me finish him. He's brought me to orgasm several times manually and through a combination of manual/oral stimulation. When I asked him why he wouldn't let me finish him he said "Well, that's gross." I told him that it would be a huge turn-on for me to bring him to climax and that I really wanted to finish him and he will not let me. I feel horrible about it because I'm continually blue-balling the poor guy. Any ideas on how I can help him open up so he'll let me finish him?
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He stops me
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Im a guy, And i think he just doesnt want to cum on your face or in your mouth, Mayby he is a clean person who doesnt like to do it, Has he reached full puberty, is he able to cum, is he able to orgasim. Ask him these questions and answer back. I hope i could help you. Try and Keep this thread alive untill you get what u want.-kjoman
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He's almost 18, he's defintely reached full puberty and he's able to cum/orgasm. I just can't for the life of me figure out why he chooses blue balling himself over my willingness to climax him....
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I had the same problem but eventually got over it.I think the main reason he's doing this is because he is afraid you will be digusted or turned off by seeing his cum get everywhere. If he lays down and does it, it gets all over him... if he's standing up chances are it'll get on the bed or the floor. If your wanting him to get off in your mouth then he's afraid you might again be disgusted or think it tastes awful (and from what I've heard if can taste bad depending on a chick's preference). I think he's generally scared of you not simply putting up with his cum but hating it. It's a guy thing I guess. I guy wants to know his cum is desired haha. Just keep gently/friendly telling him it's all ok and if he's gone down on you just tell him thats how you'd like it to be for you?
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I agree with the other replies, i think he doesn
t want to see his cum on you and doesn
t want to make a mess on the floor or bed sheets etc. I think you should try briefly talk about it to him about it and carry on doing it the way you have been, because i would imagine sometime he`ll let you finish him off. -
He might feel he'd be disrespecting you or something by cumming on you. That's a possibility.
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Your man has to listnen to you too, if it turns you on he should release. Especially if he does it to you. Next time don't stop, even use your mouth and play with yourself at the same time and tell him that you need him to cum, suck on him if you have to. Just don't rape him, poor guy lol
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Well he's coming over on Tuesday and I'm gonna talk to him about it either tonight or tomorrow... See what happens...
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Yea thats great. Lol rape him ahahah :grin: Funny man. I hope we have helped you. come post in again or pm me or any other guys in this thread if you need more help.