Alright you know what i dont get. Is that most guys expect a girl to want to do stuff with them but then after there done expect them to not go do stuff with anyone else but the guy can go do w/e he wantsOr how if a guy hooks up with two girls in one night hes a pimp but if a girl does shes a slutI seriously will never get it.. or even in porn most people will say the girls a hoe but the guy is just a normal guy..And this is coming from a guy to.. and its werid but i do almost all the stuff i just talked about.. idk why i think its how society raised most of us or something.. dont call me a pig or something because im not.. its just werid ill never understand itP.S.--i hope i put this in the right place
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Ill never understand this....
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Yeah, double standard. I also hate how guys can take off their shirts in any movie, but if a girl takes off hers, the movie is instantly branded R rated. It's sexist and it's not fair.
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I wonder where we linked breasts to sex, because they're not "technically" sexual in any way. I think it's just one of those things where women began covering them, and men liked them - since its something engrained in our instinct that they relate to health and fertility or something along those lines - and this led to them becoming this thing that men want to see but can't see and it was perpetually labelled as such.
It's one of those modern day things that really doesn't make sense, but with modern day ways of thinking and attitudes it would be shocking (and arousing) to see women topless. The difficulty with changing the sexist perception is that breasts are seen as something that's arousing and sexual so that means they're not appropriate for being seen in public. The reason it's not the same for men is probably because society has been male-dominated for so long (and to a certain extent still is when you look at various leaders of corporations, nations, etc) and thus most men didn't see other men being shirtless as being so wrong since it was like seeing themselves shirtless.
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My wife jokes around and calls me a male slut because of my past, I don't care I like it. Then I can quickly reminice about some of the hottest times I've had with other women. MMMMMMMMM Dohnuts
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In reply to: I think it's just one of those things where women began covering them, and men liked them - since its something engrained in our instinct that they relate to health and fertility or something along those lines ...health and fertility? B-Buh-But what about Vegas breasts? Nothing healthy or fertile about silicone.
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Well, now that you are seeing this, you might be able to change your veiws.I have wondered the very same thing, and discussed it with my guy friends for DAYS and the only conclusions we can come to is social ques...It really isn't right..but could you imagine how it would be if we all ran around naked?A little off topic but:Do you think rape would happen more or less because the "undressing' challenge wasn't there? I mean it is a power trip..but???
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Yah i am trying to change my views i dont like it at all... its just so werid... and another thing is most people who call girls sluts are other girls.. atleast where i live.. so hell who knows lol..
I think the rape would happen a little more sadly.. some sick guy could just run up on a girl and yah... but you whats werid.. in my practical law book( it was made around 95') it says a women that is 18 years old can have sex with a male minor and its not rape.. i do not get that.. i think its either wrong or that used to be the case.. but i know its not now.. but my teacher told me technically rape is unwanted incertion.. so how could a girl physically not mentally rape a guy?
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I think a woman over 18 having sex with a male under the age of consent could be charged with statutory rape in most US jurisdictions, and with something similar in most of the world.
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Yah thats what i figured.. i just thought it was a little odd.
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But also what i asked is it possible for a girl to PHYSICALLY rape a guy? Like force him to stick his penis inside of her.
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If the the guy were restrained(physically or mentally) and she was able to arouse him to get an erection then the answer is yes.
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I agree.. there is a lot of double standards. In my book if a girl sleeps around a lot and if a guy sleeps around a lot... they are both sluts in my book. But as you said that's not the case with a lot of people. Women usually get the slack and called a slut for something the guy next to her does as well. It sad.
And yes it is possible for a woman to rape a man. As Spd said if some how she was able to get him around and take control, that's one way. I have also heard a story where a woman forced viagra into a guys system and rapped him that way.
There's also the form of rape where a woman shoves objects into the guys anus. That is also another form of rape if it's unwanted.