ok so i'm kinda new at this (just did it for the first time 2 weeks ago) and i'm 19 for any one thats wondering. anyway my question is after i come if i keep going and i'm not totaly hard is there any chance sperm can get out of the condom? it stays on but when i'm done it almost looks like come might have worked it's way up the condom and maybe gotten out? i have another question. i have some trouble getting hard. i never did befor when me and my girl friend would play around but when we went to do it i could barly get hard. most times after i get hard i have time to get the condom on befor it goes kinda soft. most times it doesn't go totaly soft then when it gets hard again i already have the condom on and we can do it. i read about some other people that seam to have this probablem and people told them it's because there nervice and they think the can't get hard so they can't and they just need to relax but i can't seam to just relax and forget about my probablem. anyway TIA for any help
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Nooby questions
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Yes, there is always a chance that semen can get squished out along the shaft and out of the condom if you continue after orgasm.
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Sometimes the thought of putting a rubber desencitizer on your john thomas can be unerving. It takes longer to get into it when your one eyed snake can't see.
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the condom is there not only to protect, but it's also a desensitizer, add a little lube inside the condom, but make sure you get a good fitting one, make sure it's not gonna slide off. That will give you a little sensation to the glans of your penis, and will help. Also after you ejaculate, it's wise to clean up, and start with a new rubber, it can leak, and also it could wear down the latex a little, but more so the pressure behind the resivior tip, if filled with cum, can cause it to pop.
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In reply to: it would be best to do a quick-change with a wipe off, Sounds like gymnastic moves!sorry...welcome Chevyman!
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thats kinda what i thought it's just i'm scared i won't be able to get hard again if i pull out... but i really don't want a kid yet so i guess i will. thanks for your help
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Yea unless I've gone a week or something crazy without an orgasm I lose my erection pretty quickly after coming too. Just try to last longer and make sure she is completely satisfied before you blow your load. There are plenty of other threads in this section aswell as the sexuality section that should help you to last longer if you are experiencing that problem.