Is it just paranoia?

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i really do need ur feedback no this. please help. recently, my boyfriend and i, we probably got ourselves into one deep shiEt! and it scares the hell out of me. he did cum 4 to 5 times that day and when he inserted his penis in mine. he was sure he didnt came. he's confident nothing will happen to us. but im just scared this mite lead us to that deep trouble. he did finger me when he had his cum in his hands though.. is there a possibility i mite get pregnant? please help!

It is possible as human sperm can live for a short time in the open air, I think it's a few hours. Some people can become pregnant very easy like this, while others may take a year or more. Does your country allow the "Morning After Pill?" If so, it might ease your mind to do so.

ouh my god. it just cant be true! morning pills??? ive never heard of it actually. now im more worried! ouh gosh!

Out here at least, we have a "morning after pill" which stops a pregnacy from occuring if taken the next day or so. Why do you think your pregnant? Are you showing early signs, like morning sickness? You may never be pregnant in the first place. Any women want to help answer this question for ms.mimi? You probably are worrying for nothing. How old are you if you don't mind me asking?

im just 18 actually. and yes, we should have thought before we actually do.. its been 3 days since we had it. but i just dont feel good. ive had this feeling of pain in my stomach. well i know, its probably cos i worry too much till i have no appetite to eat or anything. but it just freaks me out everytime i think abt it. i just need to find out if there is a possibility.. but ouh god am i soo worried

Are you worried about what your parents might think or are you worried about yourself and the relationship with your boyfriend? Take a hot bath with candles and lie back and relax. Do you have such a thing as the morning after pill out there? Ask the pharmisist. It is safe and prevents pregnacy from happening. But worrying will make you sick, do take your hot bath and let your inner senses tell you.

there's a small chance, but it's rare that a good amout of sperm that was on his hand could force itself to attatch to you. Yes it is possible, but rare. As fot the stomach pain, I believe it's just the stress of worrying getting to you.

you might also want to consider different types of birth control, maybe go on the pill or something, then your mind will always be at ease.

Mazkat > you might also want to consider different types of birth control, maybe go on the pill or something, then your mind will always be at ease. Not forgetting std's however, befor any impressionable youth reads that and thinks the pill is totally safe. (not trying to be pedantic with you, just got to be careful with the young 'uns around on this board)

very true - i just got the impression that the OP didnt use ANY type of contraception - but true best to double up using condoms and another form of BC

im actually worried of my parents. and my future of course, just not prepared of all these. as for the morning after pills, im kinda late for that now am i? it works effectively within 72hrs or smth.. and ive gone beyond that. thanx for all ur help yeah, but yes, im scared like shiEt now. i just couldnt tink of anything else but to wait for my next period (in 3 freaking long weeks)...

I can see that being from Singapore, you have a great spelling and language grasp. I think you are more than bright enouph to know that everything will work out. PM me if you need to.

Stress tends to delay (or skip) periods, so it might not come even if you arent pregnant.

yeah thats true. but on the other hand, i heard about women being pregnant and still have light periods too. i just hope everything will work out fine for me. i really do. im seriously considering a test or smth. a blood test? or a urine test? it hasn't been a week. so can these test actually produce assured results? too early perhaps?

It can be too early, but it depends on the way it's tested. The better the medical fascility the better the tests are usually. It is possible to find out now with a blood test at most places.

Wait to see if you skip a period before you get tested, those should get the best results.