Right. I am 16 and not circumcised.I had no idea that you were supposed to strech your forskin back until I started to read these forums...I can a bit but mostly only when flaccid, and I was just wondering why do you need to?I can ejaculate and clean my penis up to a point, why does the forskin have to go behind the head? Mine doesn't go anywhere near nehind the head when erect, I doesn't hurt when I try but it feels weird and uncomfertable and makes me not want to do it. Why does it have to go there?Will a girl think it's weird of she sees mine and sees it doesn't go behind the head?
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Behind the head???
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On that picture of the forksin being pulled back you have on this site, mine goes back to about the third from the left on the top row.Do I need to start streching, and if so how?
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people like you are the reason that circumcison is a good thing. Its not for everyone but it is for those that have no clue.Unfortunatly for you, Im circumsized and have no idea how to answer your questions about it all.I do not mean to take a dig at you but rahter at your schools and people close to you tht should of explained it all to you long before now.this is information you neede your whole life not just when you reach your mid teens.I can say that the reason its important to retract it so far is for purposes of cleaning it so you do not end up with a funky smell or or worse any type of infection. stuff builds up in there ad if you cant wash it out it cant get out. click that search button on the page between main index and my home, change the time frame to all posts and do some readingf, Iv seen alot of stuff about these things on this site and it was all news to me but having been cut, it was really nothing pertinant an important to me like it is to you.soon youll get some replies to your post that unlike me know what thy hell they ar talking about, in between now and then do some research on your own and you can find a hel of a lot about it while you wait
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Thanks, but please someone help because I sleep badly thinking about it.
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WHY???Because you need to be able to clean daily.Because you will have significantly reduced sensations during sex.Because you risk the forskin being forced back during sex resulting in a tear or it getting stuckBasically becasue you are supposed to...
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Right, so how would I go about doing this? I have read quite a few threads but there isn't the right information there for me...I don't get what you are supposed to do?
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What do you mean, there is not the right info for you?
There are a couple of ways (use all in combination)..
1. Pull the forskin forward.
2. Get 2 fingers inside forskn and pull apart to widen opening
3. With a full erection pull back allowing the head to stretch opening and to stretch frenulum.There's not much more to it. Doing it in a hot bath helps loosen teh skin.
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When I pull it back when erect or flaccid, the slit on my head (don't know what it's called) opens a little bit. Is this normal?Sorry to anyone who thinks I'm completely ignorant, but really was never told any of this.
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It's called the urethra and it's opening becasue the head is getting squeezed from the sides. No big deal.
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the pros of stretching ur foreskin outway the pros of not basically.....I used to feel the same way, i could masterbate fine, it seemed clean, so wats the point???I think it was the fear of the unknown speaking, but you'll be so grateful if u start stretching......Let us know how it all goes...
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If you take a thorough look on this board you will find some threads of people who have experienced rips and tears to their foreskin/frenulum because it wasn't streched enough before they had sex. That sounds like reason enough to me!
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Right, thanks very much. Now I need some tips on how to start streching.When erect I think I have quite a big head, and the skin really feels very tight. It just won't go down very far, and I'm scared to do anything incase it tears.Should I be doing it flaccid or erect? I tried the idea of opening the gap with my fingers when flaccid but it just wouldn't strech...How often and where also?
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In reply to:Unfortunatly for you, Im circumsized and have no idea how to answer your questions about it all.I do not mean to take a dig at you but rahter at your schools and people close to you tht should of explained it all to you long before now.The ppl I can see, but when I was in school, there was not a single mention about the foreskin or its functionality.But maybe that was just my school. But I dont think the education system has properly taught kids about the natural penis and has instead focused mainly on the cut penis.Which of course makes many a kids think that they are natural, when in fact they are not.
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did not teach me shit about it in my school either.its the fault of the school, I ony found out about it later on in life after being an adult and having threesomes and being in a few orgies and such and seeing some pornos of guys that were not cut, before all of that I ha clue thre was anyway to be besides the way I am. its needed teaching, society shirks from it, its thier fault that peope that were left intact do not know how to take care of themselves and that atleast in teh US they feel like something is wrong with themf because they do not look like thier friends.fif the family fails them as well and neglects to discuss it and eplain it to them thats two strikes in thier lives on one subject
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It's no better in the UK, or at least it wasn't when I was at school in England. I was lucky in that my Dad taught me to retract, but some of my friends were unaware that the foreskin could be retracted, until I showed them how to (and I remember that some were unable to when they tried).
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Yeah, I live in the UK too...and we were never showed and told how to do any of this!
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I don't want to repeat myself here but just relax and take it easy, there is no life threatening situation here, you just need a bit of patience...Got to this site for info and feel free to contact the web-doc, he's awesomeNicohttp://www.norm-uk.org/faq_intact_penis_care.html