Penetration question?

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I've never been penetrated by anything other than a tampon, and I just use slims or regulars. I've tried penetration myself when masturbating but I'm worried about bleeding and/or stabbing myself with a fingernail.My boyfriend wants to try and penetrate me (with his fingers) while fingering me this weekend and I'm not worried about him doing it, I'm just worried about bleeding because I'm not sure if my hymen is intact or not and I have no idea what to expect. His fingers obviously don't compare to a tampon.Is there anything I can do other than making sure I'm fully aroused to lessen any pain or bleeding? How can I break my hymen myself with the least amount of pain possible (and no, I don't do gymanastics and I'm close but not quite on the splits)?

Well before you do anything with your boyfriend give yourself some time and privacy to inspect yourself properly. If your hymen is broken, then good. Try fingering yourself for a bit to get an idea of how it feels. If not then you might want to break it yourself to avoid blood when you and your boyfriend both do something.But most importantly don't feel obligated to let him penertrate you. If you don't feel ready just say no. If you want him to do something, maybe he could play with your clit.Hope that helped .

Try using your finger in the shower, if there is blood it can be easily cleaned.

I don't feel obligated at all, I just am worried about bleeding on him and/or the pain associated with it.But thanks for the tips, that definitely helped.

I used tampons before I had sex and when I decided to let a guy finger me and then some time after, I had sex, I never bleed anywhere. I must have broke my hymen with the tampons, which alot of girls do, so you may not bleed at all. But I do agree, if you are worried, finger yourself and the shower sounds like a good idea. good luck