ok, so my girlfriend and i have sex, a condisder amount per month, (close to 15- 20) and well recently shes kinda been trying to put it off, but once i start kissing her and rubbing her breasts, and body she just like completely forgets about her not wanting to make love, i think the reason for this is cause she only was with 1 guy before me and he was significantly smaller (5.1/4x 4.1/4 (inchs) and it took her a while to get used to my size, and now i think she is kinda self concious about becoming loose, cause ive mentioned that to her. i told her that after me if we ever break up her pussy aint gon be the same. and around that time is when she kinda started resisting.well what i want to know is, is it wroung for me to be implying sex soo much? i mean she says she doesint, but then when my finger feels her pussy, its nearly dripping, idk what it is with her, ive tried asking why not and she says just because i dont....i dont force her, well not exactly, i kinda just say fine then can i at least finger fuck you? and she says yes, but sooner or later she gets soo hot and wet, that we kinda goo from finger fucking, to her giving me head, then me sucking on her breasts, sometimes if she REALLLY doesint want to let me fuck her, but shes just unbearably horny, she will let me fuck her from behind, (in her booty) but most of the time we will end up making love,am i forcing her to have sex with me?am i semi raping her? she doesint tell me to stop while were doing it,i need some answers, plz help every1,thanks
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Strange question about woman.
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yea, your kind of decieving her knowing that she'll let you, but if she's worrying about loosening up she shouldnt. If that was the case, then woman who have had baby's would never feel sex again.
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There is no such thing as semi rape, either its forcing her against her will or it isnt. I dont think you are raping her, but you arent being a good boyfriend either.Assuming she isnt just playing hard to get, you are manipulating and coercing her to do something she does not want to do.
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i told her that after me if we ever break up her pussy aint gon be the same. That's nonsense.
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Maybe she doesn't want your relationship to be dominated and defined by sex. Just take no as no and stop trying to come on to her.
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thanks every1 for your 2 pents, now i got 8 cents, :-)
but im not really manipulating her, when she says no i take it as no, in fact i usually stop and just continue to kiss her, but then my hand just goes down there, i dont really have any sexual intentions by doing that, i just love the way her pussy feels when shes turned on.
thanks every1 and keep leaving me comments and suggestions
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Java's post is right on. Your dick would have to be 10# and 9oz to make any real impression. Better examine other parts of your relationship.
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In reply to: i dont really have any sexual intentions by doing that, i just love the way her pussy feels when shes turned on.that makes no sense at all. If you are going after the pussy with your hand, that is complete sexual intention.and thinking that you'll "stretch" her beyond repair is..well wrong. you won't. Like it was said, women have babies....it tightens up again sounds like you should try talking to her about the sexual aspects of your relationship. If you aren't sure if you are raping her or not, thats a clear sign that there are issuesnow you got a dime
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In reply to: i told her that after me if we ever break up her pussy aint gon be the same. Well that was smart! Not only has it made her more self conscious, but it is absolute bollocks.Who are you, Chuck Norris?