hi,i've been paranoid about std's, specifically hiv, and had a question regarding precum.recently, i gave a guy oral for a minute or two tops. he didn't cum, but i'm not certain he didn't have precum. when i felt the tip of his penis before i put it in my mouth, it was totally dry, and had no precum; after i sucked on it, i felt the tip a minute later and it was still totally dry. is it possible to have had his precum come off in my mouth without me knowing? i didn't taste any, so i'm not sure.also, i talked to a guy who told me when he has precum, when he pats his off, he usually has more around 30 seconds afterwards if he's still aroused (this person also was still aroused when i felt them and they were dry, and they definitely didn't cum). is this true?
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Precum issues...
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Some guys have more precum than others.Not a big deal.As far as precum being there when you gave him oral sex...no one can say for sure.The best way to protect yourself if your going to continue to do this, is to use condoms.They make them in flavors
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thanks; if this ever happens again, it'll be with condoms for sure.does precum just appear and disappear, though? my friend insisted that if i had felt the tip beforehand and felt the tip after, i definitely would've felt some if it was there in either occasion; he's swearing that his like regenerates afterward, or, in the least, you can feel something sticky when touching the tip even when you can;t see it. i felt the tip after, and it was bone dry. do you think i was safe?guys, any experience?
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You may have sucked it all off before you felt it again..who knows??
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it was a minute/two minutes afterwards when i felt it; would it have regenerated? sorry, just paranoid.
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It comes out gradually for me, but it's not the same for all guys.
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Oral sex seems one of the less effective ways of transmitting STDs, though of course it's still possible. Some precum is likely to get in your mouth with any oral sex without a condom.
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even if i felt it beforehand and afterwards and no precum was evident at either point?
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Yes, small amounts - obviously not a lot.
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ok...
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It would be difficult to tell, especially if he doesn't precum much, but he could have released a drop or too during oral and you may not have noticed it. Precum does have a slight taste to it (sweet and salty), but its not strong tasting at all, and you may not have noticed it. Some guys precum more than others - some don't at all, while others like me produce lots of it when aroused. If it was me, you would have definitely noticed it. Generally though, precum doesn't have much sensation at all when it comes out, and we certainly can't control it. The only sensation we get is if it is a large drop of precum in the urethra, it feels like a drop of something in our urethra, just like a drop of pee, cum, etc. So he could easily release a small drop or two and not feel a thing, especially with all the other feelings going on with oral sex. In any case, precum can contain STD's just like regular cum, so you need to be careful next time and protect yourself.