I am invovled with someone through IM for a few weeks and we're in a DOM/sub relationship. He'll tell my to masturbate, when he sees me get to a certain point, suddenly he tells me to stop although I'll beg not to stop. He'll tell me to stop, so I do. But I have this build up of sensation, energy and sexual tension. Why does he do this to me? What it's purpose? I like it but I do not understand why I do or his reasons for doing it.
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Tell me what and why he is doing this...
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Whats a DOM/sub relationship? Its in dominate/submissive (that makes sense) Anyway, If its what i said above, he's showing his authority over you (being that he would be the dom. in the situation you said.) I dont see any purpose other then that.
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Well, that's a bit odd. Knowing you're in a dom/sub relationship, I would think you'd know exactly why he does this. Maybe letting someone have that much control over you really isn't your cup of tea.
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He does this because he is showing you he is the boss. It's a sub/dom situation. That's why he does it. He knows you're close, so he stops you, showing that he is the dominate one.
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A DOM/sub relationship.....I need to get me one of those.
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Isn't my cup of tea? How would you know if I even liked tea? Besides, I love my cup of, um... tea?. :grin: Feels great. Lovin' every minute of it. :wink:
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i hope you dont mind me asking, but how old are you?
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Why do you want to know that?? You can tell me yours too, Stranger.
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im 20. almost 21 and im asking, because your age would greatly aid in my response to you, and im guessing since you didnt give your age that your under 18 and probably shouldnt be im a dominant/submissive online-relationship.
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In reply to: that your under 18 and probably shouldnt be im a dominant/submissive online-relationship. Why shouldnt an under 18 be in one of those? Especially if it is just an online thing...I mean who does it hurt? I myself am intrigued. FreakyAnna, did you just meet some guy who suggested it, or did you go to a certain website for it or something?
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Why does he do this to me? What it's purpose? I like it but I do not understand why I do or his reasons for doing it. This is kind of a silly question. You are in a "DOM/sub relationship"... well the purpose of it is to dominate you and make you suffer. To let you have pleasure when he say's it OK. IDK... it just plain seems so obvious.
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If it makes you uncomfortable, tell him. If he doesn't care, dump his ass!
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becuase if she's like 14 and he's like 25 then there is something wrong there, esspecially if it ends up at "hey, want to meet up and do it for real"
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Well if she's 14, then she shouldn't be in a BDSM situation at all. BDSM is more mental than physical, at 16 and under most are still learning about the body. Learning the spots and techniques and what they like. However if they're still mentally young, then a BDSM relationship can be scarring. If they feel an attraction to BDSM, then they should do some research on it first. But yes, if she is underage, and he is over age, even if she's 16, and he's 18 or 19, it's still illegal in the US, and whatever goes as for the other countries as well. In Canada if she's 14, and he's any age over 14 then it's legal. So if she's 14, and some old guy in his 50s wants to meet and have a relationship, then it's legal. Shows how the system really fails.
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What are you talking about? it's not fukcin legakl. i hate how ppl make canada so bad. i live here and its normal. And btw. Its illegal if yur over 198 and with sumone under. if you have sex with them its considered statatory rape and 4-6 years in prison. get your facts sstraight. :angry:
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This was a pretty old, pretty dead-and-buried thread. Now we get to read ShadowKitten's post again.