I'm an 18 y/o girl and I've had a few hookups in my time. But I've never had a serious boyfriend and there isn't a guy that I really like. All my friends seem to crumble without boyfriends and I'm just kinda sitting here thinking if a great guy comes along, sure I'll go for him--but I'm not gonna sit around feeling sorry for myself.I'm confused. I don't know why I don't like guys and obsess about them as much as everyone else. I feel like people are starting to think I'm a lesbian. I've seen some porn (with multiple girls) and I think it's hot, but I don't find myself attracted to girls at all and the thought of myself touching another girl grosses me out (not that there's anything wrong with that!) Perhaps I'm asexual. Ugh. What do you think? I'm sorry if none of this makes sense. I know what I'm trying to say but I don't know how to say it in words.
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Sexuality
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I think you're just less obsessed about it than most of us. You're lucky.
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A lot of people are like that. Besides, I think I remember a woman's peak of sex drive is around 30 or so.
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Maybe you just don't need a guy's acceptance or complete attention to feel good about yourself. I'm like that. A lot of women are just insecure, and they forget about their friends when a guy comes along. I personally think it's pathetic, so it's good that you're not so obsessed.
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Whatever, It shows that you are happy with who you are and your comfortable with your life. Most people aren't that comfortable and only feel their lives are complete when they are with someone else.Your the lucky one, not them I used to be like that, and still am. My lonliness is winning out against my comfort
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Noc is right. You're the lucky one. Guys like me who get really lonely without a girl can tell you that it's not all that fun.
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Like everyone else said, it's really not a problem. I'm very much like you. I really didn't mind being single - all my friends were like "i need a man", etc, but it just didn't seem to bother me. It would get to me occasionally, but most of the time I was fine with it Also..I think you mean bisexual, not asexual