Ok, a little background before my question. I am 17, I've been with my g/f for almost 14 months now. We haven't had sex, becuase we both have some things we need to work out first: she's been raised in a religious home and feels conflicted becuase of that, and I want to be practical (right time, right place, comfortable, etc) But, we do mess around, and have no quams about it. She has never had an orgasm. Because of the way she grew up, she's never masturbated (and never intends to). For a long while now (almost a year) I have een trying, unsuccessfully, to give her her first by fingering, which she's cool with and all. Hasn't worked yet but hey, its not like i mind practicing :wink: sometimes it goes better than others. She's pretty shy about stuff like that so she doesn't talk about it too much and she really doesn't know too much about, like, her own body. So she's no help to me, lol. Anyhoo, the other day, when I was fingering her (and it was going pretty well I think) I look and there's this...excretion of some sort sitting there in her pubic hair. It was not ordinary wtness and there was not alot of it. It looked kinda like a very little bit of guy cum, but to be honest, and gross, it looked more like just a big hunk of snot lying there. We're pretty open with each other, so I asked her about it, and she said she had no idea. She later told me that she had noticed something similar before, at tiems when she would go pee after messing around with me. Then she told me to look it up online if I wanted an explanation, and I do, so here I am. Any help? Thanks in advance, and I wanna say how great and helpful this site has been in the past. I just registered today so that I could ask my question, but I have been a visitor for a long time and its been helpful before.
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Let's start with this excretion...
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Its just her "wetness". Healthy vaginal discharge, lube or whatever you want to call it, has mucusy look and feel to it.
When a girl gets really turned on there is alot of it. That is all you are seeing, excessive amounts of lube.
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hmmm...i'm pretty used to her wetness. You can't see that, lol. This was different and there was not much of it, it was only in one spot, and there wasn't any, from what I could see, anywhere else, like just inside her pussy or on her lips or anything. Discharge makes more sense...but is it at all possible that she could've squirted w/o actually having an orgasm? Cuz she often complains that me fingering her makes her feel like she has to pee. Thanks for the reply
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No, she didn't squirt. That secretion is usually clear, and watery. Womens discharge varries, depending on the time of month, how excited she is, and just "who" she is.I am pretty sure it is just one of her normal discharges.Sometimes it is clear and quite thick, other times it is white, or has white streaks in it, other times it is just white. During ovulation, it is thicker, and if you have some on your fingers, and put them together and pull it apart, it will form long "strands", it is more watery during other times of the month.What your seeing is probably a normal variation of her normal discharge.
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kk, thanks. Now I'm a bit thrown off that I never noticed this before, I've had plenty of opporunities. But she admitted that she didn't want me to see it cuz she thought it might goross me out (she knows me well, sadly) so I guess I can't be too hard on myself for not noticing before, lol. I will post more later, I have a very interesting relationship and could probably benefit greatly from this site's community, lol.