Brother and underwear.....

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ok - this is my first post here, so please be easy! So, here's the deal...My brother (age 14) and I (age 17) have to share a bathroom in our home. I play soccer for my high-school and practices are every afternoon - then I come home, shower and off to work. I always just leave my clothes on the bathroom floor, and pick them up at night when I get home.My mom does all the laundry, and recently asked me if everything was allright "down there". Being very confused, replied it was fine. She said she noticed lately that my panties had a discharge in them. So being wooried about this, I started paying more attention to my underwear and what they looked like. To me, they looked normal as they always have. Then one night I cam home from work - went to put my clothes up, and noticed my underwear wasn't there, but didn't think too much of it. Later that night I went to ask my brother a question, and walked in on him masterbating, and he had just "shot" into the crotch of my missing underwear!!!He was freaked - I am freaked! and I don't know what to do!!! Should I tell my parents about this??? Please help!!

tell him to knock it off and leave your stuff A-L-O-N-E

Welcome to A2A, Reagan Gal. I think both suggestions above are good, and you could combine them. It's best not to leave clothes on the floor of communal areas, and that's even more important if they are a temptation to your brother. I wouldn't tell your parents - hopefully your brother has got enough of a shock. And he'll know that if he does it again you might tell your parents.

he's a teen with raging hormones. clean your room up, drop them in the laundry as soon as you take them off.As for your brother, don't go off on him about jerking off, just tell him that using your underwear is inviding your privacy, and breaking your bonds as brother and sister.If this continues after you talk to him, then it may be wise to tell your parents. Make sure you talk with him maturely, instead of calling him a sick freak and smaking him one.

i guess you guys are right - it just freaked me out! It makes me wonder how long he has been doing it? He was really embarassaed and hasn't said anything to me since it happened.So - is this common for boys to do this? To his sister's stuff?

I don't know how common it is - perhaps more than we'd like to think. If a guy likes to do things with women's used underwear, he doesn't have many choices and he is likely to use what he can find at home.

i have a sister and ive sniffed her panties once, because my friend told me it was erotic o_O........didnt do much for me

I think hormones or not, that sniffing or jerking off in your sisters panties is wrong. I would tell your mom that you know now what the white stuff is and tell her to ask your brother because he most certainly does. Your brother may have fantasies of you sexually too. Thats plain wrong. If they were someone elses panties(not blood related) then there is not much harm in sniffing them but cumming on them and putting them back

He is only little dont worry about it. Talk to him about. Like i once tried my little sisters thong on 1ce but then i felt really bad and neva done it again lol.

But its obvious that it is not his first and only time. I say that if you or your mother see the white stain again after catching him in the act, deal with it promptly.

what if you put on the panties without knowing.and got pregnant.

I think she'd probably put on a new pair of panties the next day.

hahaha

Well dont you? :confused: I usually change my panties whenever I change into different clothes.. sometimes i wear 2-3 pairs a day..

well i mean. like forget all that.what if. she wouldnt, but what if =p

I think i'd notice if i put under wear on and someone had done something to it rolls eyes and who the hell doesnt change their underwear?!

bury uself in a hole

I don't think there's any need to needlessly embarass the boy. What he's doing is not freaky or perverted. It's quite normal actually. Like Ineligible said, he's probably not targeting his sister sexually, hers is just the only underwear he has access to.Chances are, having been caught red-handed, he probably won't do it again. If he does, just talk to him and let him know you don't think he's a freak, but you would appreciate if he left your undies alone. If he persisted after that, then you might wanna bring your dad (not your mom) into it.

I remember this girl.. we were best friends from grades 7-9.. until she turned into a real dumbass.. she got kicked out of her house and moved in with this girl.. who's family wasnt really clean. She wore the same panties without washing them for days.. I remember someone took a pair and threw them in a tree at school.. I felt really bad for her. I remember they'd call her "slammy ho" because when we were little everyone called her sammy jo. It was really bad..

OK, so I talked with my brother about the whole deal (felt totally weird). He felt really stupid about it. My brother and I are close and have a good relationship. He asked me a few questions about sex, and we talked some more. I told him about this website if he had more questions to post them here. He promised to leave my stuff alone.

I did tell him that if he wanted me to buy him some that he could keep in his room, that I would. But he said no, he's afraid my mom might find them!