My wife does not conplain about sex, she says It's good and she gets her nut , but I'm not getting enough and she will not give anymore without me having to fight for it and after fighting for I'm turned off and she goes to sleep with closeing the deal.any thoughts on the subject?
Some women just don't have a high sex drive, maybe she is just one of those women.
Maybe try to give her more pleasurable orgasms.
What the heck do you mean by "fight"?
Ever heard of foreplay? Romance?
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Howdy all - very long time no chat!
Obviously she doesn't have much of a desire for sex and there's probably a couple of reasons why.
1) As the others have stated, try to make it more enjoyable for her. Ask yourself what more can you do? Do you enjoy giving her orgasms or do you just storm it, get yourself off and that's it?
Try a few new things for her, more foreplay, go down - whatever she might like. I love giving as much and sometimes more than receiving.
2) There might be some kind of external or seemingly unrelated issue that's bringing down her desire for sex. Is she stressed by anything? Is she overworked or run down? Can you do any more of the housework to take some of the load off her?
I can tell you that if someone's feeling run down and overworked (whatever the work might be - don't say she doesn't work, because looking after a household is work) their sex drive can plummet. Mine does, and I'm normally an addict unless I'm working heaps.
Look into these things a bit more. Try some new ways of pleasuring her and she'll desire it more.