Need some advice from the experienced

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Well i been with my girlfriend for a couple weeks now and she wanted to have sex but i put it off.. Im a virgin and shes not, she doesn't know this though.. Just because i know someone will be asking, im 18.Well anyways i dont want to make an ass of myself and come in completely clueless so i thought i would come here and try to educate myself a little bit. What are some things i should know, what kind of moves should i make? I really dont want to be going in there and not knowing what to do.

WELL! a Real woman will help put it in.But in all honesty. If you are going to have sex with this girl don't you trust her enought to tell her it is your 1st time!If she cares for you AT ALL she will understand, and maybe even help you out!Don't lie...it is the end of a relationship from the beginning,

You can suggest she goes on top the first time, if that would make you feel more comfortable. Anyways, I would read up on techniques an make sure you know where everything is ahead of time. Did you tell her you had already had sex, or did you not say anything at all?

simple, just go what's natural to you, ask her what she likes and do it.

Well i been reading alot of stuff on here and i realize this isnt going to be some hardcore sex being its my first time and im sure shes not to experienced but i know shes fucked her old boyfriend a couple times.. Should i go down low first and get her loosened up and stick it in and fuck her or just fuck her? I really don't want to go in not having the first clue and have to ask her what the hell im doing.. I'd really appreciate some tips and some moves i should make.

Also i need some suggestions on kissing.. Don't get the wrong idea i have been with girls and i have kissed, not made out though and felt her up and had my dick played with but thats about it.. If she trys maken out with me im pretty clueless i dont even know what to do in that situation.. Any tips?

Thanks alot guys, this site has helped out alot so far.. Im not to comfortable asking my friends stuff like this.

wait, did i read that wrong? YOu havent made out buy you guys are about to have sex?If you have sex there are two main things: Foreplay, Protection.

Yea thats right, but we have spent alot of time together.Do you think you could help me out with some kissing pointers? What exactly is the object of this i never really got it....

You certainly shouldn't stick it in without lots of making out first. Women take a lot of time to get horny. So you need to learn the making out bits first before you get to the sex.

Well thats just it, she hinted to me to make out with her at the movies but i played dumb like i didn't notice her because i dont even know what to do.. Whats the objective for making out, what do i do?Dam i feel left out, most my friends lost there virginity when they were about 15.. I missed the train for the time period to be asking questions like this with them when they first started doing it.

The objective of making out is for you both to feel good. Start with kissing and cuddling, tongue kissing; lick and nibble her ears and work your way downwards. There are lots of things you can do, but don't do nothing like last time.

If she thinks you're experienced then she'll take doing nothing as meaning you don't like her, so you should let her know this is new to you, if she hasn't worked it out already.

Thanks for the tips i got one more for you though. What i was really trying to get at by making out was frenching, i need some tips on how to french and what the objective of it is.

I don't think it has an objective - at least not in the military sense. It's just a form of intimacy that says "I trust you so much I'm going to share saliva and get your diseases". You stick your tongue in and move it around and let her do the same.

So i just stick my tongue in and move it around and then pull my tongue out and let her do the same? Theres no fancy moves or anything i should be doing while im inthere?

you learn as you go generally, i had a boyfriend that did this rolly tounge flippy thing, and i tried to do it but i cant/couldnt for the life of me.

and dont share too much saliva, thats really off putting imo, washing machine effect cringe