I really dont know any girls that like me more then a friend and I dont think I ever will get a girlfriend so I've really just lost all drive or intrest in looking for anyone. is this normal?
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Sigh...
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I'm going to give you 2 conflicting pieces of advice here...1. Stop looking! It is often said it is only once you stop looking do you find something. You just have to realise when that something comes along and then you have to act.2. Look elsewhere. Maybe you have to drop the friends tag completely. You probably get it because you are a nice guy. Maybe you should go outside of your normal group and find someone who doesn't really know you. Get to know this person on a more one on one basis and it defines you more as a potential partner rather than a friend.Or you can use a combination of the 2. Good luck!
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how do I avoid being just a friend?! I dont want to be a shallow bastard or anything.
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You could be acting in a friendly rather than flirty way?
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Yeah, that kinda feeling is normal. I went through it lots of times, I'd like girls and be trying hard to get them to like me and then when things didn't work out I'd kinda go off them, just not take notice of them (girls in general) anymore. Then a few days later I was back.
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you want to be a friend. When you are friends with a girl and you go to take it to the next level then it will be a strong relationship.
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I really dont know what to do I just feel hopeless, it doesnt matter how outgoing or confident I feel nothing seems to work. and I still hold to notion that assholes get the girls.
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do not worry bud. A lot of us feel that way. Just keep going and it will happen.
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You don't have to be an asshole to show you are interested. Give them compliments on things "just a friend" wouldn't compliment on. As cheesy as it sounds say her eyes look nice or something, it's a winner most of the time.
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yeah i think so too, lots of girls like the asshole kinda atitude.