My girlfriend has an intense burning/stinging senstation inside her vagina as soon as my penis penetrates her. It sometimes goes away during intercourse, but sometimes does not. She has been tested for STDS and is definitley clean. When she pees right after sex she says it burns, but the next time she pees a few hours later it does not burn at all. We tried to stop having sex for 5-6 days, but the next time we tried, as soon as I penetrated, it hurt her again. I'm about 6.25 inches and she is only 114 pounds. She is a slim girl and is really tight down there. Does her size have anything to do with it?
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Burning/Stinging as soon as penetration starts...
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She may have a urinary tact infection, or she may not be relaxed (even subconsiously), and he muscles are tightening.
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I made her cum three times yesterday... So does that rule out the whole "not relaxed thing"?
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hmm i think your right because she says it usually goes away during intercourse and its usually at the start. We have sex often and she orgasims almost EVERY time, is there anything I can do to keep her relaxed or make her more relaxed?
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In reply to: She may have a urinary tact infection, or she may not be relaxed (even subconsiously), and her muscles are tightening. Usually with an infection, you would have the burning sensation with every urination, not just the first one after sex. Bronkus also said that the pain and burning happens when he first enters her, but goes away before orgasm. What seems more likely is that she is not completely lubricated and relaxed before penetration and some small wounds (which heal quickly) are occuring.Bronkus ia a little large and it appears that his gf is rather small and tight. More time in foreplay should increase her natural lubrication and help the problem. Or they could try an artificial lube like Ky.
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In reply to: I made her cum three times yesterday... So does that rule out the whole "not relaxed thing"? Clearly she is relaxed when you are finished. The important thing is that she is also relaxed when you enter her. Otherwise she naturally tenses up and it becomes your strength (which is obviously greater) against hers and you could be causing small cuts in her vagina.Spend more time in foreplay and delay penetration until she is well lubricated. She'll love you for it and you'll both be well rewarded.
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You should try giving her an orgasm with your hand or tongue before intercourse.
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I've never been able to do it with my hand or tongue and also she is not capable of getting off by masterbating by herself. It seems like the only way I can get her to orgasm is by penetrating and hitting the gspot.
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Try using lube
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I also just realized she just changed her birth control...Could this have an affect on the amount of lubrication down there?
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Yes.
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Fingering or if I give her oral sex by using pressure with my tonge hurts her as well. There was only one time we've had sex without it hurting her but as we were finishing up, she started to hurt. When shes really wet it still hurts, but not nearly as bad as when shes dry. Also, when I finger her straight in, it doesn't hurt that bad, but when i move my finger to the sides, it really hurts her.... like the walls on the side or something.... Im so lost...someone help us!~
