Must be one of the worst days

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Girlfriend phones 5 minutes ago, crying, her parents are getting posted half way across the country. She has to go with obviously were both 19..We've been togather a year and talked seriously about marriage and kids and traveling etc. Its not kiddy love. we have 3 months till she leaves.I want to move out with her, Im really close with her parents, But will her parents be like what the fuck and shit like that if I come out too?I need to move to get a job but this has got my heart beating, were not gonna break up I know that for sure.. I guess we have to talk things over tonight move because we only talked for 1 min cause her parents were yelling supper....Any suggestions or opionons on the whole subject, we will not break up for sure , I always read about these things and dont think much until it happens, its like a feeling of a dagger in my chest right now as i write this:(

Hey buddy, I think if you put your mind to it, you can do it.I'm 19. My parents moved to the Philippines to retire. They invited me along, but I decided to tough it out here so I can get a good education. The closest family I've got is 300 miles away. I live in a decent apartment, with a decent job, and I'm slowly but surely making my way through school. If you're determined, you can do it. It will be a rough road. You must ask yourself an important question. Are you willing to sacrifice this much to be with her? If your answer is an undoubted yes, then you've got my vote for going.

Much agreed with Websexinfo. Your 19, she is 19, you both could come and go as you please. Go where you heart tells you, she better be worth it then.

I dont understand why she obviously has to go with them?

Her dad is seriously attached to her, like one of those major daddys girls, im lucky to be even on his have decent good side..
We talked it over tonight and we promised each other we would stay togather and I will probably be moving there with her, getting into some sort of trades work or apprenticeship..
We dont know how to tell her parents im coming along but I guess when they mentioned they were moving they kept saying I could come live there for the summer and come visit whenever I wanted. So i dunno?
Just so hard leaving this town ive lived in for 19 years , going out on my own, she is worth it I know, I guess its a little pressure to get outta this little city and get my life into gear..
Just hard to take I guess.

Your dedication is hard to find in a 19 year old. I'm 19 as well and I'd be doing exactly the same thing your doing without a doubt. Follow your heart bro... life will not be easy but with her by your side... hopefully she'll be more then worth the difficulties. Good luck!

If youve lived at the same town for 19 year, you need to explore. Adventure is part of the learning process. Once your out ther, work hard for your goals, if it fails in the end, then youve experienced some valuable lessons for later in life. Go have fun.