man just bin out comin bck from friends. do any of u guys lie to ur folks bout where u been. i was at tutorin for an hour, but had to explain why i was another hour late on top of that! real reason was i was out for the first time havin some cans(2) near me mates house. my question is do u guys lie bout havin a couple of cans to drink. im feeling guilty bout lying to dem, and i wouldnt do it again, also if dey found out den they would never trust me again, and i wouldnt be able to continue my tutoring!!!!!!!
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Guilty-help
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Yeah, I lied to my parents when I was a teenager, and like you I felt bad about it.
It's a good thing that you at least understand what the possible repurcussions might be if you get caught.
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Nah, i never needed too. I was always either at home, the planetarium, or the libary.
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Depending on how old you are, and how strict your parents are, it's probably a good idea just to tell them. Let them know where you are and when you'll be home. The more honest and open you are the more likely your parents will let you stay out or something (just make sure you don't get too drunk and do something stupid).
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Im really honest with my parents. My mom more so. The only thing they don't know about me is that I do drugs. I figure that if I'm honest with them they will let me have more freedom. That I do!
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i've lied to my parents before about where im going etc..well not exactly sometimes i just twist the situation a bit to make it sound more innocent. i think your fine, just dont be stupid and get yourself in a situation where you are in danger in any way
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cheers guys i wont get in no danger, cause i know thats stupid an there lookin out for me, but pink u dont tell em bout drugs? wtf? anyhoo i am honest wit them, and ive decided that if i went out again id tell em straight bout there bein some booze, so they knew where i was an all. im bout the only kid i know who acctually tells his parents if i got a detention. anyhoo my friends called round today asked if i wanted to go up dinedore (which meant our code for goin up to the woods and geetin pd.) i said no as i was busy, dint wanna gout out drinkin again, this time they'd wanna get pd. when i came back i started talking to my mum, i said who i was talkin to and where they were gonna go, i said summut bout it bein a code, an she was like oh for smokin? nah drinkin i said none of us wud ever smoke,just drink like normal 15yr olds, she laughed and said ah i guessed as much. so i said u used to do stuff like that, and u were drinkin a lot more than i am at 15 when u were that age. she said yeh etc so shes pretty kool and not naieve, so if i did tell her (if she's not already guessed bout last night where i reall was) then she might me fine, but she might flip at me not tellin her first. phew essay over now
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why would I tell my parents I do drugs? they'd probably kick me out.
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then stop doin em.
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No?
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well then you wouldn't have to lie to your parents.
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But I don't feel guilty about it
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well they are drugs
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Its not like I'm doing anything hardcore. Plus they never ask about it.