i'am 26 year old i'am getting married in the next month.my inner labia(labia minora) protrudes out even when my legs are together.is that normal or abnormal. will my husband accept me. will he notice it while having sex. i haven't had sex before.i'am an indian. i'am really confused. pleas all ouf u all whoever view this thread post a reply which will be helpful for me.my lips stick together. will it get separated while having sex. please help me out........
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It's not unusual for the inner labia to protrude. It won't change the feel of sex.
I'm not sure what you mean by your lips sticking together. If that's something temporary then of course his penis will separate them.
quite a lot of women have one lip being a bit bigger than the other, myself included and its completely normal...the labia minora are never really symmetrical anyway, dont worry about it =)
The vast majority of guys wouldn't notice unless you told them and none would care. All that most guys care about is that it is clean, fresh, and nicely trimmed.
Generally, guys do not find the vaginal are to be particularly visually stimulating. It is the legs, butt, stomach, breasts, and face that we are programmed to be attracted to.
I don't know about that.
I have heard that some guys DO find vagina's sexy and attractive.
I didn't and wouldn't say that vaginas (including the related parts) aren't sexy. They are certainly fun to play with. Also, I know that there are some guys who really really enjoy looking at them. Personally, I am turned on when I see one, although I think it is from the evoked memories of wriggly girls rather than from sexual attraction to the object itself.
However, from an evolutionary point of view when a man sees a woman who is a potential mate, the vaginal area is not clearly visible. Historically, all the man would see is a triangular patch of hair. However, the man would see her body shape, her breasts, her butt, her small chin, etc. Since they are visible markers of fertility and since the vaginal area is not, men are inherently programmed to be sexually attracted to women with shapely breasts and a pretty face but they are not inherently programmed to be sexually attracted to a particular type of vagina.
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i think it would be the thought of the vagina, not what it physically looks like that they like
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Seeing some sexy female bend over (facing away from me) and just showing her vaginal lips definately gets my motor going!
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You have nothing to worry about. After a quick browse around these forums you'll find that no guys really care about the size of a womans labia.
You'll also find that many guys actually prefer larger labia, it's somewhat of a turn on. So please, you needn't worry at all. I'm quite sure your new husband won't have any problems and will probably enjoy them!
As for them sticking together, once you're lubricated they'll be much more easy to separate to make way for any intercourse. Foreplay and taking it slow the first couple of times will make things a lot easier.
Good luck and best wishes for the both of you :smile: