For those of you that are still virgins this is a question for you.How do you guys/gals do it. I am at the point in my life that I am still a virgin, but I am getting such a strong natural desire to just go do it. It gets stronger and stronger each day. I mean almost being 21, it is consuming my thoughts big time....Just curious how yall hold off until you find someone you love dearly (not necessarily marriage, a loving relationship).
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How do you??
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lots of cold showers
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LoL @ Cold Showers.Well m8, im 19 and a virgin, like you i wanna hold off until i meat the right girl. And i dont mean marrage or not necesarily even a long term relationship just when it feels "right". I went through a stage when i just turned 18 where i couldnt get it off my mind. i just wanted to go at everythin i saw lol. I found the best way was to keep myself busy and really focus on certain aspects of my life. Take a hobby or somthing up which requires commitment / alotta concentration or somthing like that to free up ur spare time and take ur mind off things. I realised after a while that the times i got these desires the most was when i was down or depressed or part of my life was out of control. Might not be the case for u but might be worth a look and askin urself if theres somthing else ur not happy with.Just a thought and my 2 cents.
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buddy, you can also concider your own deffinition of love. I can say that I love all of my partners over the years (you don't wanna know) but I only married one (and unmarried)
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i'm 22 in 2-3 weeks and i'm still a virgini know i think about it a lot and i've been in the situation where i have found it hard, but somehow avoided going all the way.i guess anything is possible if you have something that drives you. mine is a religious thing, it drives me