Okay, I've got a bit of a problem. I'm 16 years old, and my girlfriend and I are very sexual. We see each other every day on the weekends, and usually end up doing some naughty things. It starts off by just talking for a couple hours, then leads to making out. Then some dry humping, followed by fingering/handjobs (with the pants still on, as a safety procedure, since we're never really home alone haha) after that we usually head up to either mine or her room and start removing the clothing, followed by some more fingering/handjobs usually finishing up by getting naked and performing oral on each other. But my problem is this: sometimes when we are dry humping or grinding or whatever you wanna call it, I cum. Embarassing, I know. It's only happened once or twice, but it's really quite awkward having to stop whatever we're doing and telling her "Man I have to pee." You see, I'm way too ashamed to be like "Holy shit! I just jizzed myself!" Even bigger problem is that when I come back from cleaning myself up, she wants to continue doing what we were doing. Sometimes we make out some more, but the day is always ruined by my cumming. I can't let her into my pants at all due to the major wet stain, and if we try to dry hump or anything again, I, well, Can't get it up. The day continues, and eventually she asks why we're not upstairs with our clothes off. I can't just tell her I cummed, so I have to make up some kind of excuse and tell her, and I think sometimes she takes it as "He doesn't want to do anything, he doesn't like me anymore." So there it is in full, my dilemma. Any input would greatly be appreciated. Also, I was wondering what the average penis size is for 16 year olds? Mine is about 6 inches when fully erect, but only about 2 inches without a boner. Thanks in advance to everyone.
So your close enough to your girlfriend to fool around, but not close enough to talk to her?
Really you could just tell her what is happening, and make her feel good to...
Say something like "you know, sometimes you turn me on so much that I can't help it".
It might be tough to talk to her about, but there are things in life that are even harder to talk about, I bet she will understand.
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." -- Theodor Seuss Geisel <br /><br />
I agree with Pepsi on this one. IF you two are having sex (well yeah...you get the idea) then you should be open to talk about any problems.
.....Yeesh kids now a days...lol
You should be able to tell her "You excited me so much I came".
Average adult erect length is about 5 1/2", so you're fine. You are a "grower" being small when soft and growing big - that's perfectly OK.