Now I want to just point out I was reading through the contraception thread and I just realized how many females are worried about pregnancy. Now doesn't it seem counter intuitive to do something with risks and worry about it after, but then to continue to do it? If I am not going insane help me because I just do not see how that is not like trying to swim in acid...Now I am not saying sex is bad, but just for those who do it worry their asses of b/c something happened, then they do it again and then another problem or worry....makes no sense.
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Lets get a discussion going
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It's amazing how little you care about consequences when you want to hump someone.
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it truly is
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just a note but i also think that contraception should be an equal responsibility from both sexes (which sadly it isnt a lot of the time), theres a lot of guys posting in that forum too
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yeah that is what i meant...really sad
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Contraception....the reason stupid and ignorant people have the most kids . (generally speaking)
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That is why I always have a pack of condoms in the inside pocket of my jacket. I'm not gonna expect my gf to have them with her, they're more my reponsibility than hers. Altho she sometimes has a pack too. We are both very safety conscious. Not to mention we don't want her to get pregnant with big exams coming up and a holiday away just after.
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correction....LACK OF Contraception....the reason stupid and ignorant people have the most kids . There ya go, all fixed for ya
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No, he was sorta right. When there is contraception available it is the smart people who use it and the stupid and ignorant people who don't. If you take away the contraception (from society I mean) then I don't think you can blame anyone for having unprotected sex, there would be no other option apart from celibacy and we wouldn't want that now!
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but the stupid ones lack of using it is what causes all those kids.well actually I think we mean unwanted pregnacys as there are plenty of stupid people who have kids on purpose.I know a guy who cant afford his house or bills he has and has 6 kids, and wants another one.Hes 34, went to highschool together, his religeion tells him to have many children so he does, his wife said enough but nones done anything to take any steps to prvent it so he just keeps filling her up with goo and saying if god wills it we have more if not then we dont but its not our business to decide gods will.Hes plenty booksmart, 3 associates degrees in different subjects but uhhhh I dont give him too high a score in the mental health or coon sense tests.
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Well exactly, its the lack of using them, not the lack of contraception itself.I'm not a believer of any religion, but I am getting tired of people blaming their religion or using it as an excuse to do the most stupid things.
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Well yes, but if it was universal lack of contraception then we'd all have many kids, not just stupid and ignornat people.
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Yup, thats what I said.
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You did indeed, I simply wanted to explain that that is precisely what I meant originally.
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Ok lets reprhrase this, I think we can agree after I state it this way.
its the lack of use of contraception by stupid people that leads to many unwanted kids, and if ther was a lack of availible contraception, then we all would have many kids not just the idiots.
yes ?
I think we both said the same thing, but wiht different intentions as to the main subject being use and available