Am I just Jealous?

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Ok, sometimes my bf will say things that hurt me....For example, me and my sis were on the net (myspace) and we were on someones profile that had a "hot" girl on the background showin off her ass and everything and him & my brother walked in and my bro asked who is that and my bf replied "A girl I would fuck so hard" I don't really get mad as much as I get hurt when he says stuff like that. I mean little things to him hurt me more than he'll ever know. One time we were eating at ruby tuesday and as we were walking in there was a waitress bending down and he said "omg perfect position" It's a little immature to do these things in front of your gf, and he should know that. I've tried talking to him about it and i tell him he's not giving me any respect when he does that, but he just says im overreacting and he's just joking around.I actually think he could be the one who is jealous bc when were watching any kind of movie that shows some guy w/o a shirt he freaks out and covers my eyes or he'll make fun of the guy and act like I'm just drooling over him....I could never sit there and say "I would f**k that guy" bc i'm just not like that i don't want to hurt him some ppl may think this is a little issue but it has really affected our relationship.

The guy is too old for you, a loser and an ass. You'd be better off without him.

yea, i get that alot...my friends tell me the same thing. And he doesn't trust me hangin out with my friends its like i have to be with him at all times bc he doesn't want me to meet someone else.

If everyone is saying the same thing, then you should listen. The guy has no respect for you and will smother you. Lose him while you can.

He's to old, to immature, and sounds like a real dick.You said,>>>"I actually think he could be the one who is jealous bc when were watching any kind of movie that shows some guy w/o a shirt he freaks out and covers my eyes or he'll make fun of the guy and act like I'm just drooling over him.... And he doesn't trust me hangin out with my friends its like i have to be with him at all times bc he doesn't want me to meet someone else."Beware of guys like that they only tend to get worse over time. My cousin-in-law dated a guy that acted just like what you are describing. When they moved in together the shitty treatment, apparently, escalated to the occasional beating. With enough sense knocked into her after a year, finally she pulled her head out and kicked his ass out. Have more respect for yourself then to put up with that kind of shit.

Thanks for the advice, it really helps me to hear other ppl's view on it...

I feel your pain, well not really but no one deserve's to be treated that way. I suggest you drop him because you can do way much better than that. You have to beware the boyfriends who are overprotective but drool over other girls. It's that whole "double standard" deal, you know. I actually have a friend who's boyfriend was like that and he was saying perverted things about a worker at a store and she basically told him to go ahead and have his way because she's not dealing with it. All of a sudden he becomes jealous. If you don't want to break up then tell him that if he can do it so can you. He should respect your feelings just as much as you respect his.

Well, we talked about about it again and he said he would try to be a little more respectful(though he has said that before) I'm not sure if i believe him but i guess I'll just have to see...o and I tried the whole "double standard thing" and i said somethin about a guy on tv, and I felt weird by doing it but i know he does it to me....It kinda feel's like were in a battle with each other instead of a relationship bc were always arguing...but I do have strong feeling's for him, i don't know if i "love" him bc I take that seriously.

Just end it. That is not healthy.

It's not that hard. Just see a cute go on tv and go "oh wow he's hott" lol little comments like that. He'll see how you feel. Then again two wrongs don't make a right but good luck.