Did you have to stop going in and you were part ways in for the reason that she was tight and could not take it all?
A lot of women take a little time to get excited and relaxed. You didn’t say too much in your post, but next time...maybe try a little oral sex and some finger play. Work her up to maybe three fingers before you insert yourself.. It will most likely be less painful for her and not as tight and it will definitely be a lot hotter a little more wet and a hell of a lot more fun for you to play in. Give that a try…
1 finger is all that I can get up now. Would you consider that as being very tight?
Yes I would consider that tight. However, I don't think that she is really that tight. I think it's more along the lines of her being either nervous, scared, not excited/relaxed enough, tense or a combination of all of them.
You really cannot rush this and expect her to open up after a bit of foreplay. For the first few times, you'll have to make sure that she's comfortable, not afraid of someone walking in, relaxed, sure she actually wants to go ahead, and you'll have to setup a nice atmosphere, all before going ahead with foreplay. If the atmos. is great and she feels very comfortable, it'll be easier for her to relax and lose the tension.
She just sounds tense, spend more time getting intimate and relaxing her (Maybe an all over body massage with oils, candles etc). Then start playing around. Play around the area to begin with, maybe some oral etc. Make sure she's lubed up, and let her get comfortable with one finger. At first entry she may tense the area, but she'll soon release the muscles and you could probably then try for a second - slowly.
Just be patient and don't rush things, take it easy.
I hope it helps!
One word: go slowly and use lube.
OK so that's five words, so sue me
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