Girl problems....

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Hi, I am 15 and have never had a girl friend...Im not gay and never will be, I jus want a girlfriend really bad. can anyone please help me out on this? or do any of you know a good dating site? please help me.

Often when we want a girlfriend badly there seems to be no-one around, and then things happen later when we don't expect them. The first thing I wonder is, are you reasonably happy about yourself? That helps a lot to make you attractive to other people.

yes im happy about myself....I think i just have low self esteem. any dating sites you now about? I have had people try and hook me up too but hasnt happened yet.

anybody else know any dating sites for 15 year olds? i have been to penpalsanddating.com and buddypic.com but I cant find anymore...please help.

you shouldn't need a dating site at 15 years old

I think real life is the best when possible. What about girls at school? Online people are not always as they seem, so you can get a lot of disappointments.

yah I know but at school everybody that I like has a bf so I wanted to give the net a shot jus to see how it works yoy know? my dad did it and it worked.....

I know how you feel, it sucks, soooo bad!

I haven't "dated" yet but have had enough fun to not complain,I'm just to shy...Anyway nothing wrong without not dating yet

I'm 16 and have never had a girlfriend.(No I'm not a square hermit)So look on the bright side, you have a year head start over me.

Don't worry... I'm 16.. Never had a girl (had one... but I don't count it.. Never saw her.. and it was for 25 hours.. so it doesnt count.. she kinda tricked me into it ) Just give it time

see thats why you ge as far as you can with her on the spot cause you never know if she'll return your calls

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dude dont date online. trust me. ive tried. it will never work. EVER. at least 4 teens it wont work. those sites r BS. i have never had a girlfriend and i was depressed 4 the longest time about it. then wehen i got ovr it BAM. i got a gf. but of course it screwed up cuz she was a whore. i finally got ovr it though...it sux having a gf 4 the first time and then realizing she was playin with you the whole time...good relationships r hard 2 come by these days...

Hey i go to buddypic too and i want a boyfriend, ive had boyfriends but i just need a friend first..want to chat?

You guys are a bunch of losers - Ive got you all beat.I'm 20 days away from being 19 y/o and Ive never had a girlfriend either. Not only that, Ive never so much as held hands or kissed a girl, even on the cheek. I hugged one once (who Id known for over a year and thought was my 'friend') but that was a few days before she reported meto VP for 'stalking' her! Wait, it gets much better. Ive never had anyone (male or female) that I can even consider a friend. Just a couple of crazy chics who screwed up my mind, my drugdealer (who I could never afford to buy much from and is gone across the country) and some random people who sometimes said hi to me, but I never really talked to any of em. And thats just the tip of the iceberg. Ive got you all beat. You need to get over yourselves and so do I. Search around the net you can find any sob story you want. There are people in thier 20s, 30s whove never had GFs. It actually becomes progressively easier with each birthday to get dates up until atleast your 21st. -- You start looking more mature, build confidence, learn how to drive, get better paying jobs, get a car, become a legal adult, gain knowledge and skills, and finally are allowed in bars to drink legally. -- Youve still got some pretty good years ahead of you, dont waste it by sitting around being hopeless and helpless. Don't worry about what comes when or what you think you "need" to have this very instant - thats partially how I screwed up the past 4 years for myself. Find something, ANYTHING constructive&fun/rewarding to do and LIVE life! This is what Im gonna do and I hope everyone else on this forum will too. Beyond food, water & air, you dont need anything but what you tell yourself you need. Peace Out & Good Luck.

Oh, this is a contest ? Well, congratulations, and now your prize: thinking this is a contest is the most fucked up thing I've heard in a while

Str8Shooter, your intentions seem good, but your delivery of your message tends to be less effective because you put people's backs up by the way you do it. (For example, starting with "you guys are a bunch of losers" is a good way to lose your readers' good feelings towards you from the start.) You've got something worth saying, but to say it effectively, so someones listens to it, you need to put yourself in the shoes of the person reading it.

i have the same problem i have never had a gf and i never even held hands with a girl or kissed i'm 15 and that got me sown realy bad i see all the ppl i called with girls and its the same way with my friends they only want me their to supply them with drugs ect and i'm tired off it i'm down being the friend that get use i'm 15

That sucks. Don't do things for people that others wouldn't do - try to stand up for yourself. People might complain, but they'll respect you more. More importantly, you'll respect yourself more, which is the first step to being someone people want to be with.