i came across a really good sex ed. site but there was a particular question that they answered that shocked me. it said that women usually can't orgasm during vaginal intercourse!check out the webpage: http://www.sexetc.org/index.php?topic=FAQ&sub_topic=Sex&content_id=453 is that really true? cuz if women can't orgasm then sex won't be as fun as it is for a guy. and that really sucks!! but i am starting to wonder if it is true since i've had sex like just five times in the last two weeks since i lost my virginity but i still havent orgasmed yet. yes, maybe it's because we're just starting out and we're both learning since he lost his to me. but during the last time we had sex, he really wanted me to orgasm since he felt bad that he could orgasm so easily during sex but i couldnt. but it was just taking way too long. he pulled out like 5 times so he could let the "feeling" pass so he wouldnt cum so maybe i would eventually reach orgasm. we tried for over half and hour probably before we had to stop. does it just take a lot of time for a women to orgasm? if so, how long? or is it true that women usually can't orgasm?
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Women CAN'T Orgasm???
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yes, its true. most women cant orgasm during sex. thats why sex is stupid.
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sex isn't stupid, some women have trouble having an orgasm during vaginal sex, normally the man must use his hands and other parts to help out some, but that's not always the case, i can have an orgasm through vaginal sex just fine
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i feel like you're the only one who knows what i'm talking about! i can't orgasm from sex and it's making me feel like sex is not fun. and this is coming from a girl whose been masturbating since since she was 5! so, not being able to orgasm from vaginal sex is really affecting me. i can orgasm fine from masturbating tho. i think i'm starting to feel less excited towards having sex even though i just lost my virginity like three weeks ago. my bf has done everything to get me all wet and excited from oral sex to fingering. but when we have vaginal sex, it just doesnt do much for me. it's not to say i dont feel anything. it's pretty good when he goes ramming into me hard. it's the only time i feel any euphoria. but it's still not enough for me to orgasm. and plus i feel sore afterwards. hmph!! i swear sex is more pleasurable for men!i found out that lots of women dont experience orgasms until they're in their twenties. 24% of women have trouble reaching orgasm either alone or with a partner. so i was wondering are u under 20 years old too? cuz i am. i'm just trying to find out if it's actually as common as the statistics say. and that hopefully that means i'm not the only one.
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nope, im 17, and although im a virgin, i have a fairly large dildo ive been working with so i dont cry out in pain when my boyfriend and i take the next step. the only way i can even orgasm is with my backmassager, which is an amazing clitoral orgasm, and with the dildo vibrating in me on my gspot its even better, but ive used it without the back massager on my clit, and without the vibration on the dildo, and it fucking sucked, it was just an annoying feeling. so, im not very excited for sex. and it doesnt help that i feel anger towards him for the fact that hes going to get an orgasm out of it, while i just sit and wait. ugh. i am so fucking cynical. im thinking of using the back massager on my clit while we're doing it, maybe that would enhance my pleasure. who knows.