when it comes to the guys i like im like helga from hey arnold, i insult them (without even trying or noticing) till the point where they start to think im a moody b***h who h8s them, when i actually like them, this has lead to me attracting buff(handsome) but shallow guys (which is cool shrot term but its summer n i want a bf). how do i stop insulting people in general converstaions and learn to keep my negativ opinions to myself
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It's going to need a lot of dedication. Changing the way you act isn't easy, but it can be done. Can you carry or wear something new to remind yourself you are going to try to change? Don't be upset when you fail - you're changing a habit, so sometimes you won't think and you'll fall back into old ways. Just keep trying, and eventually being nice will become a habit - one that will do you a lot of good.