Alright heres the deal, i appreciate any help i get because i really dont wanna screw things up with herI met her threw a friend on the internet, we have e-mailed back and forth and then she wanted to hang out, we havent done so yet but shes been calling me sort of talking kind of casual but i feel she has some interest in me. anyways we are going to dinner and a movie with a double date.i have been peeking around these fourms and most people have trouble starting a relationship and stuff, so i was wondering what should i do to let her know that i am interested in her? should i lean in for the first kiss? should i use the tounge or not? should i make comments about the way she looks? i am very confused on what i should do so we dont become friends.. how should i comment about sex to once we start seeing each other? i just need some advice because past times they havent lasted long because i was being to nice, and only seeming like a friend and not a mate. Please give me some advice im wondering these woods alone and without a flashlight heh.Thanks again
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Need Advice so i dont screw things up
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There is no way to actually tell what to do until you're there.You may feel that as soon as the date starts, that you're not compatible, or you may be really into each other...it all depends!If you feel that things are going well, you can say, put your arm around her or something. If she doesn't take it too well, back away, but don't necessarily give up. it may just be too fast for her.If she doesn't shy away, you can perhaps try to kiss her, but I wouldn't recommend it. DEFINATELY no tongues unless she does it first!As for sex...I suggest you completely put it out of your mind for a while. It shouldn't happen on a first date, especially if you only know each other through e-mail.With my girlfriend, we did almost everything on the first date, and it caused a few problems. Take it slow, it is much better that way.By all means compliment her looks though, but don't go overboard! You don't want to seem too keen. Will scare them off. Let them do a bit of chasing.
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Thanks, i will put this advice to good use.. i appreciate the reply
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Hey There...personally, I think from what you said, you are pretty inexperienced with this stuff. How old are you? (If you don't mind saying) I would "flirt" and everything like crazy with her if you like her, save the first kiss until you guys decide you're right for each other and start "going out" Just take it slow man, if you're thinking about sex on the first date, WAAAAaaaaayyy too fast. Keep it paced man!
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I am 17 years old, pretty much my first date, and i dont mind at all you asking, thats why i posted! but yeah.. but how should i flirt.. i dont want to be an ass because so far i have been really nice to her on the phone. should i just crack wise comments or what? compliment her on things? or joke.. im not really sure but i do appreciate the reply's keep them comming they are helping
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Hmm 1sts are always the hardest. Its quite hard to say HOW to flirt..it took me many years to even begin to know how to..its been working so far haha. I think the one thing you have to remember is, you can't be afraid to make yourself look stupid. I find that saying dumb stuff (usually on accident on my part..haha) gets the most laughs. "Be yourself" is so overused, but its true...keep in touch man.Winger
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HUGS N CUDDLES::