Ok I know that no guy is perfect (except Julian tehe) and sometimes as gorgeous as they may be, they really don't know when and how to stop saying the wrong thing. And it's not just a boyfriend (in my case) it's the guy friends too. Literally, they say something that stings you like a bee sting right? Then they try to back it up and it turns into a deadly frost bite. And they continue with it until it becomes a poisonous snake bite that spreads venom throughout your body and causes side effects (You love my metaphors, admit it). One of my friends while we were working said the most perverted and rude thing to me and I just looked at him like "what the heck?" and he says something else in a "no I didn't mean it like that" kind of way only making the situation worse. I looked at the other guy and he gave me a look of just ignoring the comment. Unfortunately, Mr. Clueless said yet another thing that sent me up the wall and I just got up and left, so he goes "what did I say". After a while I went back since I had a job to finish and he just looks at me with an apologetic look so I'm thinking ok he's got it now. But no, he drops the bomb with the most wonderful compliment "if it makes it any better, I'd honestly do you". Wow! Just wow. Yeah, I went off on him and told him that he just doesn't know when to shut up. I didn't mean to explode like that the way I did but honestly. Stop digging yourself in a deep hole. How can you give a hint to someone to just be quiet? Can't say anything smart, don't say anything at all. I don't want to sound mean but really that's too much. I don't know if this is with all people. The other guy friend got the idea when he tried to calm me down. Was I beng unreasonable or is my friend just stupid. Sorry, not stupid, clueless.
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Never knows when to just.. stop
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well when you are with a group of guys be prepared to here some discusting stuff.
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Ya sometimes people can say really stupit things, and not just guys but girls too(even though guys do it more often I'll admit). It's ok that you got really mad about it, especially that last one was absolutly inapropriate. You SHOULD let him know that he's not being funny(which is probably what he was attempting).
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wow! thank you so much for that wonderful peice of advice! like I didn't already know that.sorry, I'm a cranky girl today. ugh, need some chocolate. and julian. chocolate covered julian omg! new dream land!
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Ok...whatever works for you
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However if you just get mad at people that talk to you about this topic, then don't post it on a site where people will reply to it.
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sigh, dude, I wasn't replying to you. if you check it was to godzilla. your advice was great. thanks.
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oh, sorry, and no problem
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well damn!