Why is it everytime I start to think my life has finally been put back in order, it just falls apart all over again and there isn't anyone there to help pick up the pieces? I've finally started to feel better, happier about myself, and then things start to go sour on me. Fighting with family (mainly my parents), friends pushing too hard, too many things happening all at once that I sometimes feel like I'm being pulled in a thousand directions and when I cry out no one hears me. It's all so confusing and I just need a place to rant and vent alittle.
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It's almost too much!!
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**Sis, sometimes it time to withdraw from everyone and have a bit of you time. You spend so much time sorting other people out, and worrying about them, you don't realise how drained and stress YOU are. Everyone around you CAN sort out their own shit........you don't need to do it for them. Stand back and let them cope with thier stuff and you see to yourself............*cuddles* **
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Sounds like you need space. Space is precious and should be defended stubburnly.
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Sweetie I agree with Angel quite a bit. You're such an awesome person you want to help solve everyone else's problem but end up neglecting your own. You have to remember to take care of number one, yourself. If you cannot make yourself happy, there is no way you can make others happy.
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Let me add to the fray, sweetie. Take care of yourself.It sucks to high heaven to spend all that energy pouring into others' lives and then have to say "when I cry out no one hears me". I think a lot of us get that.Maybe you should back off, get some good Katie-time (I don't mean hours. I mean days) and let those around you see how important you really are to them. But most of all, take care of yourself.I'm gonna go out and shoot some pictures one day next week. Maybe even a picture-shooting road trip. Wanna go with me?
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I have nothing to add, because I agree with these guys. lol. We are here for you hun. big hugs
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like the person above me said. i dont really have anything to add because the others summed it up so well. just hang in there.
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I am ashamed I have not looked in this thread more often.Kats it is what I have been tellin ya. Remember. As long as you know you are doing as you feel you should be and you are not harming yourself or anyone than it is okay. Hit me up with how today went I am curious to know. And remember we all care about you so you can scream out here and you will hear a response, exp if you come to me. I have been there for ya before and I do enjoy letting you rant about your problems and issues. I know it is making you feel better so feel free to just go on and on about it to me...Anytime of the day.