Yeah, Iv'e got my first girlfriend. I'm 15 and a half, and i'm not all that "smooth". We've never had an "official" date yet, because we've been busy a bit. When we did go out, we saw a few other people, and they decided to come over and join us, so that didn't work out. But how do i go about doing normal things, like holding hands, putting my arm around her, and especially kissing. Do I just like slip my hand into hers? Do I just slip my arm around her? And I'm totally lost in kissing, like i don't even know where to start.
Just go with instinct, and be cautious of her reaction. You may not get X thing right the first time, but that just means practice. Also, don't take offense if she tries to show you how to do a few things you're new at, that shows she is comfortable with you.
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Well, we've both never really had a gf/bf before. So we're both new at this. Our friend told me that she wants me to put my arm around her and stuff, but i dunno, i've just never done that before. So I guess I'm a little uncomfortable with doing it in front of our group of friends and stuff. And well im totally confused on other things.
listen to her, and notice signs that she may be giving. If you feel like you want to do something like hold hands or hugging, just don't think aobut it and do it.
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She's probably just as nervous as you, and most likely waiting for you to make the moves. If you're sitting beside her and her hand is availible just hold hers gently, she will probably respond positively. As long as she responds positively feel free to slowly become more physical and intimate (ie. holding hands -> arm around -> general holding - > kissing etc.)
Good luck man.
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Well, we've got a date this weekend, so ill see what happens, and not think about what's happening. Try and not be nervous etc