HiAlright I know you lot are probably gettin fed up with my posts and stuff now but tough shit this is the only place I have to vent Long story short - liked a girl, thought she liked me back, got fucked over, she went out with my mate, broke up with him, I was there for her, she told me she liked me, she was using me to rebound off of, got fucked over again. We've made up but I like her again....and I think she likes me....mm okay that'll do for now.so I;m in the whole situation now of liking her but thinking I shouldnt like her. So every time I see her/think about her I get this whole feeling of desparation inside me.I reckon its because I think she does like me....but she says she cant trust herself to get into a relationship, because the last two she was in she got really badly hurt....So yeah thats fair enough and everything, lol but its nearly impossible to tell myself I just need to not be into her.For example, I asked her the other day would you ever go out with me, to which she answered "if i wanted a relation ship probably". I mean FFS how am I meant to get over her if she says things like that...Shes even TOLD me that she KNOWS if she went out with me it would be good....And argh okay this came from one of these questionaires you send people and they answer but shes telling the truth another one was if you already had would you do it again (yes I have already been out with her - didnt last long tho...) and her answer was "if thats what we both wanted"argh lol its driving me mad - shes a really cool person and I'd go out with her in a heartbeat if it came to that....Any opinions, comments ANYTHING lol
id have to say give her some time to think about everything get over what has happened to her... as for you, you can probably like her all you want but id let yourself be open to other people too incase she doesnt want to be in a relationship for a while.. im not too great at advice but yea..