I'm a male who's had foreplay, but never intercourse. Soon I'll have intercourse as well. Aside from "in and out, in and out..." what other things should i do during intercourse? I often hear the that size isn't as important as how you use it. So how do you use it for good intercourse? What things could cause bad intercourse.I'm aware of all the other sexual things involved that help give a girl an orgasm during sex. I'm just curious about the intercourse part.thanks,PEH
What makes good or bad intercourse ?
If you want to please a girl you have to ask what she likes if you know she isn't liking it let her pick the position and do what she likes for a while. It's not so much in and out that is the worry its different positions like doggy style or having her legs over your shoulders. Be creative. BUT Just remember go gently first time around alot of guys can get caught up in the moment and hurt a girl we are fragile and you'll find the more you do it you can get a bit more into it. If she is a virgin its going to hurt her so make sure you consider her FIRST.
well practice makes perfect. dont worry too much about what you will and wont do. just have at it and let it come natural. id say while you are going "in and out" see what feels best for you and your partner going slower and faster. remember that its not about the destination, its about the ride!!! you wont know what works best for either of you until you try it, but make sure there is an open line of communication between the two of you. ask what feels good and make sure the both of you are clear and comfortable telling each other what dosent feel good as well. dont rush things, try to make it last as long as possible, just dont hop on top of her and pump a few times and cum. thats no fun. after you start your sexual relationship you will know what to do through trial and error. but i must say that the more you are into the person, as in emotionally, then the chemistry is way better and the sex is too. when my girlfriend and i were in the heat of our relationship the communication and trust was great, we were very comfortable with each other, not embarrassed and the physical chemistry just clicked. but when we were breaking up and after we broke up we had sex and it just didnt feel the same between us. if you and your partner have good chemistry, are good friends and can communicate well and feel comfortable with each other, id say you will be ok. and remember, practice makes perfect! good luck! tell us how it goes! heh heh!
I don't think i could have good sex without a little kissing and him biting and kissing on my neck, or breathing in my ears. hmm. . just little things that make it even better =)