The age difference thing...

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ok, how do u no if the person ur seeing is offically TOO old 4 u.im 17 right now, and theres this guy.....long story short, is 26 too old 4 me? lol

Nahhh I dont see anything wrong with it whatsoever. Your both sexually viable. If you get on, then I dont see any problem whatsoever.

I personally would see that as wwrong. It makes me question the guys motives. Why can't he go out with a woman his age?

I agere with Helms on this.

Me with Helms too. He shout be with his own age group.

Law says something with 4 years difference if your under 21 or 16 cant remember.

The 9 year age gap isn't the part that's bad. If you were 21 and he was 30, I'd say go for it. But, his motives are questionable.

His motive could well be that he's gagging for it, or they could be that he generally really likes CuteNCrazy, either way I dont see a probllem with the age itself and whetehr or not his motives are acceptable or not are down to what CuteNCrazy is looking for.

well if she is asking, then there is some worry in her mind. I personally would say do not and I would not do that at 26...

a 26 year old with a 17 year old? what's up with his life? honestly that's a little awkward for him I would say. But I don't know. But when my sister was 16 she used to date a 27 year old... outta countrol. But he said she has a "future" in the film business. Nasty dirty little man. I think if you truly love him and he truly loves you then it's fine but just make sure it's for the right reason.

Thats a pretty big age gap! You just gotta think.. what does a 26 year old want with a 17 year old??

If you were 21 and he was 30 that might be okay. If I was personally in your situation, I'd be more worried about my dad killing the guy!

It's not in New Zealand.

shit!ok, yer, i no hes to old 4 me deep down...and ive told him this and hes said, yes , im 2 young 4 him, but he cant help but feel that way about me. it kinda works cuz hes quite a young 26 yr old, and im a very old 17 yr old ( maturity wise im saying) but i no where ur comeing from, tis a bit wrong.this sucks, im not close with my parents anyway, but if i was all like, "oh, i got a bf, hes 26" they would flip out abit....or alot. i was just considering not telling them.lolthis just sucks, when eva guys go 4 me theres always sumthing in it thats not gonna work. crud.and i no u guys r all thinkin he just wants 2 fuck a 17yr old, but i dont think this is true. hes attracted 2 me and all that, and i no he wants 2...but he says hes willing 2 wait for me, as long as i need etc etc.if he was afue yrs younger id b into it, but this is just playing on the back of my mind cuz ive seen simila situations with other ppl and ive thort "thats sick, he just wants 2 fuck a younger chick"hes suck a great guy.... this bitesi cant tell him its not gonna work, he thinks im "the one"... shit, sumtimes it would just b easyer if i hated guys

If, when i'm 26, I meet a girl whose 17 who I dig, then I aint goiing to be held back by the age difference. As long as you keep a level head it should be alright. We cant presume this guy is a bad guy.

In reply to: Please remember, you are still very young, only 17, just a baby. You make it sound like shes just a little kid.

yer, the fact that id have 2 lie 2 ppl bout it is a big thing 4 me. i dont lie, i just dont like it.>>>>you are still very young, only 17, just a babyhaha, i choose not to get offended by that. its easy 4 ppl 2 say whithout knowing me. keep in mind that generally, NZ teens r alot more mature than Americans and i happen 2 suffer for a condition i like to call "too old 4 my age syndrome". and ive already had our "prom" which we call the school ball, and ive got another this year...sigh so over itand yer, i have told him 2 back off and just b friends 4 a week 2 see how i feel bout him like that. ur right, i guess hes just gonna end up being a really really good mate. he says hed neva want 2 loose me, even if were just friends.i dont want 2 upset him by telling him we can just b mates 4 now tho...these things neva work out 4 me

Age isn't all that important, it's really about the maturity level of both people.

My ex was 10 years older than me and we were together for 6 years. (I was 18 and he was 28 when we met)

I think the age gap was way too huge, i know age shouldn't have age restrictions... it just seems socially awkward for this to be happening...