ok, how do u no if the person ur seeing is offically TOO old 4 u.im 17 right now, and theres this guy.....long story short, is 26 too old 4 me? lol
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The age difference thing...
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Nahhh I dont see anything wrong with it whatsoever. Your both sexually viable. If you get on, then I dont see any problem whatsoever.
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I personally would see that as wwrong. It makes me question the guys motives. Why can't he go out with a woman his age?
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I agere with Helms on this.
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Me with Helms too. He shout be with his own age group.
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Law says something with 4 years difference if your under 21 or 16 cant remember.
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The 9 year age gap isn't the part that's bad. If you were 21 and he was 30, I'd say go for it. But, his motives are questionable.
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His motive could well be that he's gagging for it, or they could be that he generally really likes CuteNCrazy, either way I dont see a probllem with the age itself and whetehr or not his motives are acceptable or not are down to what CuteNCrazy is looking for.
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well if she is asking, then there is some worry in her mind. I personally would say do not and I would not do that at 26...
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a 26 year old with a 17 year old? what's up with his life? honestly that's a little awkward for him I would say. But I don't know. But when my sister was 16 she used to date a 27 year old... outta countrol. But he said she has a "future" in the film business. Nasty dirty little man. I think if you truly love him and he truly loves you then it's fine but just make sure it's for the right reason.
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Thats a pretty big age gap! You just gotta think.. what does a 26 year old want with a 17 year old??
If you were 21 and he was 30 that might be okay. If I was personally in your situation, I'd be more worried about my dad killing the guy!
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It's not in New Zealand.
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shit!ok, yer, i no hes to old 4 me deep down...and ive told him this and hes said, yes , im 2 young 4 him, but he cant help but feel that way about me. it kinda works cuz hes quite a young 26 yr old, and im a very old 17 yr old ( maturity wise im saying) but i no where ur comeing from, tis a bit wrong.this sucks, im not close with my parents anyway, but if i was all like, "oh, i got a bf, hes 26" they would flip out abit....or alot. i was just considering not telling them.lolthis just sucks, when eva guys go 4 me theres always sumthing in it thats not gonna work. crud.and i no u guys r all thinkin he just wants 2 fuck a 17yr old, but i dont think this is true. hes attracted 2 me and all that, and i no he wants 2...but he says hes willing 2 wait for me, as long as i need etc etc.if he was afue yrs younger id b into it, but this is just playing on the back of my mind cuz ive seen simila situations with other ppl and ive thort "thats sick, he just wants 2 fuck a younger chick"hes suck a great guy.... this bitesi cant tell him its not gonna work, he thinks im "the one"... shit, sumtimes it would just b easyer if i hated guys
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If, when i'm 26, I meet a girl whose 17 who I dig, then I aint goiing to be held back by the age difference. As long as you keep a level head it should be alright. We cant presume this guy is a bad guy.
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In reply to: Please remember, you are still very young, only 17, just a baby. You make it sound like shes just a little kid.
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yer, the fact that id have 2 lie 2 ppl bout it is a big thing 4 me. i dont lie, i just dont like it.>>>>you are still very young, only 17, just a babyhaha, i choose not to get offended by that. its easy 4 ppl 2 say whithout knowing me. keep in mind that generally, NZ teens r alot more mature than Americans and i happen 2 suffer for a condition i like to call "too old 4 my age syndrome". and ive already had our "prom" which we call the school ball, and ive got another this year...sigh so over itand yer, i have told him 2 back off and just b friends 4 a week 2 see how i feel bout him like that. ur right, i guess hes just gonna end up being a really really good mate. he says hed neva want 2 loose me, even if were just friends.i dont want 2 upset him by telling him we can just b mates 4 now tho...these things neva work out 4 me
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Age isn't all that important, it's really about the maturity level of both people.
My ex was 10 years older than me and we were together for 6 years. (I was 18 and he was 28 when we met)
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I think the age gap was way too huge, i know age shouldn't have age restrictions... it just seems socially awkward for this to be happening...