Help my bf says has blue balls

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Ok so im like kinda embaresed to even ask but my bf says i gave him blue balls. I dont think i could have, hes the only one i have been with in a while. Im not real sure what i should i do, should i go to the doctor and get checked. I mean if its something with his balls is it something a woman can even get. Or is it something i can have but it doesnt do anything to me but i can pass it to guys? What about him, should i make him go to the doctor? Is it dangerous? How contagaes is it? Is it something that can get cured or is it permante?Thanks for your help if you have any. I couldnt really sleep to good last night worrying about it.

Hey..Blue balls is a slang term for a temporary fluid congestion in the scrotum and prostate region. It is most-commonly associated with adolescents but can occur in any sexually mature male. It is often accompanied by a deep, agonizing, cramping ache... and it's simply when they have been aroused for some time and have had no realease! It's not an STD or anything that can be caught don't worry!

1. “What about him, should I make him go to the doctor? “Going to the doctor will not help. Not unless he knows his doctor on a very personal and intimate level… The poor boy needs to cum fast and furiously…. 2) “Is it dangerous?”No… It’s not like it can kill him, but it is serious... It’s very painful too. He either has to take some quality time and pop a nut or deal with the pain….3) “Is it something that can get cured or is it permanent?”You bet… A fast hand job or a long sensual blow job will help cure the problem. It’s only permanent if he can’t cum…..

So it just means he needs to come. Thats good its not an std. But I guess I need to apologize to my bf i kinda freaked out on him. Thanks you guys you really saved me alot of ebaresment. That would have sucked to ask my brother to take me to the doctor to get checked for blue balls. Thanks again.

lol don't stress what did you say to your bf? I'm intrigued now!!

lol, like i dont even totaly rember exactly but were like foolen around some, then we had to stop. And then he was like "hey you gave me blue balls" or something like that. I totaly thought it was like an std. So my first thought was he cheated and caught something, then maybe gave it me. I just went off on him yelling about cheating, and there was alot of 4 letter words i cant say here. I dont think i have ever yelled like that before. I guess looking back he did look a little more confused than guilty.Like right now im not sure if wana like crack up laughing or cry. I guess i should probly give him a call.

Sweetie,Oh man,...To be young again...lolI hope he understands. Just give him a release next time you all are making out, but only if you feel comfortable with doing that. I'm sure he would love it, what guy doesn't, but make sure you are ready. Being a teenager... lol

Lol! Oh god.. give him a call. That cracked me up Thats brilliant! The poor guy hehe

**Call him, and laugh about it, im sure he will understand that you hadn't got what he was on about :smile: **

hahahaha, thats funny funny stuff.lolbe careful he dosnt use that as an excuse 2 get u 2 do stuff with him ur not comftable with tho....guys can be devious little shits when it comes 2 sex.lol

Well its all good now, we talked it out and stuff. But i seriously doubt im gona here the end of this anytime soon. Im just waiting for the nicknames to start.

lol bless! thats funny :grin: glad you two worked it out though! did he understand??

give him a release ?he has a hand, if hes still got a pair its his own fault, I would of taken care of that immediatly.Telling agirl she is giving you blue balls is a ratehr controling way of telling her she is hurting you by not letting you fuck.Its not a line I ever used. its also bullshit, if your that excited and not allowed to bust a nut, there is no reason you cant run off to the shitter and knock a load out by hand. Many a girl has gotten me going, I took the matter into hand and took care of the results myself.

Amen to that! Andi, It's not your fault if he didn't take care of it himself. I agree with Chance. He should never of said that to you.. He could of taken matters into his own hand...

half the times its used its a lie, and just manipulation. when its happened to me, I jsut did a load by hand, problem solved, ther is no reason for having blue balls, unless maybe it occured on a crowded bus or subway fro rubbing up against people and getting worked over that.

He pretty well understood. Hes been teasing me alot about it buts thats. it.I can really see how a guy could take advange of saying it. Im pretty sure he really had it this time. We were planing on haveing some time alone that night. And I had been tempting him pretty bad most of the day. Anyway I dont think he will do it again after what happend.

maybe because it was mostly women who had been victems and not figured it out, and it was also gay men, maybe men can understand how shitty it feels and have used it them selves and dont really think of it as aply to get laid?I dunno, I was sorta confused as to why people hadnt already pointed that out before me.