Is the male obsession with penis size just an overhyped silly thing or do women generally care or break up with men with small ones?
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Is the male obsession with penis size just...
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In my personal opinion and experience, the penis size hype is purely male dominated. We males, for some unknown reason, just have to brag about how big are dick is even if we are lying. I find it really annoying and choose to not participate in such actions with my other esteemed highschool colleagues. I wouldn't say women DON'T care, but it's not the basis of a relationship in the least. I'm sure a guy who was say 3" when he was hard may have some trouble with women due to that fact. The average male is about 5.5", and even after that fact it's not length necessarily as much that matters as girth. You could have an 8" dick but if your girth was, say, 2" (which is an extreme exaggeration) then you really wouldn't do much at all for the woman. So, i guess what i'm saying is, on the whole unless you are extremely extremely small, it really just doesn't matter, if you're comfortable with it she'll most likely be comfortable with it.
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I guess if you're with a first-timer whose never seen porn and your confident, that's ideal. God damn porn. Makes men insecure and wonder why their dicks arent 4 inches longer
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from now on ill just look at dykes
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**most women don't care what size a mans dick is, its mainly younger men who worry if they are big enough. **
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As much as I appreciate the comment, the way that sentence was qualified ( most women) wasn't a comfort. Fact of life i guess
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Well there are shallow self centred people of both sexes...........that's a fact of life.
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most women don't care what size a mans dick is
I'm not sure thats true of. I think most DO care, but it varies to what extent it bothers them...remember that girls my age have been fed the same stuff as guys my age and will thus on the whole have the same prejudices. I know girls who talk about it loads.
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Ok, granted, i should have said most women, not girls........... girls think they should look a certain way, act a certain way and have a BF thats hung.............bullshit - when they get older, they will realise that the size of someones dick means nothing.......... my ex was huge, but im not with him now.I was a girl once, and i can't remember caring whether the guy i was with had a big dick or not!
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Cool yeah that may be the difference...but when these girls grow into women we cant gurentee they will have given up their ideals of what penis should be, just be the world we live in now perhaps.
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trust me when girls do eventually grow up, they will realise that its far better to be with someone great to be with, fun, caring etc who maybe isn't overly huge in the dick department, than to be with a guy who is as interesting as mud whos hung like a donkey..........LOL
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I can think of plenty of interesting things to do with mud :smirk:
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I am not a female, but being a bisexual male, I can share some thoughts.I have never in my life cared about another male's penis size. I really don't care if the guy has a small penis. I feel that if you really care about the person, you will try to work around that, as sex is only one part of a relationship.I think that much of the fascination with size does have to do a lot with males. I know a lot of females who admit that size has never mattered for them. But, these same females also seem to share the fascination for large size among eachother. So, while I like to believe size doesn't matter as they say, a lot of females don't help by acting among others like it does.Then, there's the whole porn thing, and quite frankly I think that it does a lot of harm for the image of sex in general. I think it makes a lot of people feel that the sex they have isn't "what it should be" if one or both partners aren't screaming in pleasure, et cetera. I do realize that porn can be helpful in figuring some things out and give new ideas, but I also think that experimentation should be used to figure out what is best to both partners.That's a lengthy bit, so I will stop there
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trust me when girls do eventually grow up, they will realise that its far better to be with someone great to be with, fun, caring etc who maybe isn't overly huge in the dick department, than to be with a guy who is as interesting as mud whos hung like a donkey..........LOL
" ok that jsut reminded me of what i saw the other day GOD that was gross! -
My fiance used to claim that size didnt matter when we were first fooling around and before we started in with sex.
since that time though she has bragged more then once to her friends about the size of my dick and complained several times about the smallness of her exs dicks.
itmaybe vengence and that shes jsut being a shit about her past lovers or maybe shes serious but I know that atleast for the time shes been with me shes rather liked haveing a bigger dick stuck in her then she had in the past.
She makes me feel good anyways :laughing: twas recently my birthday and one of my buddies got me dick pump for a joke ( assuming it was a joke but with that boy I never really know)
while sitting there drinkig and giving her evil looks whie holding the peter pump, she told the room that if that worked and my dick got any bigger she wouldnt let me put it in her.
she may well of been full of shit, but it made me feel pretty fucking good all the same.
anyone can brag about thier own dick, not that many people have someoe to brag for them.