ahhh well today i was pullin my foreskin back over my head and i got it back further than normal and i noticed a thick layer of that white crap! and i was trying to get it off with water but had no luck!.. then i dared and used some body wash that slightly got it off and no luck tho.Now how will i kno when my fremular(sp?) that piece of skin connected to the head will rip ? will it start hurting? cause im really close to gettin my foreskin over my head but dont want to in fear of ripping it! sometimes i just want to so i dont have deal with it! what happens if i would rip it!? would i have to tell my parents and get surgery? heres another Q. If i pull my foreskin back will it get caught behind my head and like cut the blood flow off? and my dick will drop off? ahhhhh
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Ahhh A little help
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Hey bud, keep working slowly with that foreskin. Your frenulum isn't going to rip unless you're really agressive, as you stretch the foreskin more and move it over the head and onto the shaft, the frenulum will stretch as well. That white stuff you're seeing is smegma, a naturally occuring lubricant that is supposed to be there. Using a bit of oil based hand lotion or even regular vegetable oil will help loosen it and make it easier for you to remove. Be gentle and rub it as you can, soon enough it will be all gone. Then, everyday you gotta retract your foreskin over the head and clean under there really good, that will prevent the buildup from happening again. If you haven't yet, go over to the thread on foreskin stretching and take a look around for some tips on how to work with your foreskin and have it move easily over the head of your penis and onto the shaft, be patient and consistent and soon things will be fine. If your foreskin ever gets caught behind the head (usually when erect) take your hand and get a firm grip at the base of your penis, this will keep more blood from flowing in...hold it for a few seconds and let go, your erection will subside and then you can move the foreskin back over the head, you might have a bit of lotion handy to help things move easily as well. And no, it won't fall off! However, it isn't good to let your foreskin stay behind the head long because the lack of blood flowing into it might cause some damage and you don't want that! Let us know if you need more help!
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Don't worry about ripping your frenulum - its very elastic and stretchy. It will give you plenty of warning before it rips in the form of pain. If you feel pain in your frenulum, then back off a bit, and start stretching it by going back until it hurts a bit, then hold it there for a few minutes each day, and eventually it will stretch for you. If you have a really tight foreskin (phimosis), there is a small chance it could get stuck behind the head and restrict blood flow while erect. If this happens, you need to squeeze the HEAD of your penis firmly to push the blood out of the head and back down the penis, which will make the head smaller and you can get the foreskin back over the corona (ridge - mushroom edge). I usually agree with Lance, but in this case, do NOT do what he listed! If you grab the base of the penis and squeeze firmly, it will do the opposite of what he said - it will keep the blood trapped in the penis and make the erection stay and actually get bigger! The reason is the penis gets blood pumped into it from arteries which are in the middle of the penis. The blood exits the penis through veins which are near the surface of the penis. When you squeeze the base of your penis hard, it cuts off the blood exiting the penis through the veins, but the blood can still go into the penis through the arteries in the middle. This is the principle behind cock rings and jelquing for enhancing erection strength and size. So just remember - if your foreskin gets stuck begind the head while erect, squeeze the head, not the base.
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Hey focus, grabbing the base of mine works as well for those unwanted erections, they'll decrease within a very short time.
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lance - that's a bit unusual. If I grab the base of my shaft and squeeze, it will keep the erection harder, and will keep it going hard as long as I keep squeezing - its like its impossible for it to go down as long as I keep squeezing. You should investigate how cock rings work, and you'll see what I mean - squeezing the base usually forces an erection to stay and to get harder than it normally would.
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Squeezing should give you a harder erection. The veins letting blood out of the penis are near the outside, but the blood travels in closer to the center. By squeezing, you should still be letting some blood in but not as much out.