Hey y'all. I know there have been tons of posts from people confused about their sexuality and i'm sorry to say here's another one. I am a man aged 22 and for about the past three years i've been confused about my sexuality. I have had numerous relationships with women that I have really enjoyed. In fact the last two relationships were both broken off by the girl resulting in me getting very depressed about it. I think I find myself attracted to men as well as women though - in that I think they are good-looking and nice to look at, although I have never had any desire to start a relationship with a man. I predominantly dream about women, but every so often I have dreams where the subject matter is men or me being sexually confused. The last girl I liked, who turned me down a few weeks after we had a one night stand, has made me feel very depressed because she was beautiful and I enjoyed her company and wanted to be with her so badly that I can't even listen to music that reminds me of her anymore. When I found out she was recently seeing someone else I couldn't really handle it and broke down in tears and I try to avoid seeing her at all costs. In fact i've avoided going to certain places in our city just so I don't bump into her. I can be a very jealous person and seeing her with someone else is something I can't handle (when I saw my last gf with someone else just over a year I ago I felt a similar way also). I dream about her as I do about other girls, sometimes these dreams are sexual. But I still can't get out of my head that I don't really know who I am and that I may like men. Does the reason I get obsessed with certain girls because I don't find many girls I actually am attracted to because I am actually gay? Or am I bisexual? Or am I just straight? I love having physical contact with women, taking them places, treating them with gifts and being all romantic. I never have wanted a relationship with a man, but am I just kidding myself? People often say that sexuality is determined at birth and that bisexuality does not actually exist, but is that true? I am 22 and have never spoken to anyone about this before. Some help or insight would be much appreciated as i've tried to figure it out by myself for three years now and I haven't come to any resolution. Thank you for reading this long post, take care y'all,
Tommo