wow, creepy, the same thing just happened in my relationship. well i have to agree with silent, if your current bf really cares about you he won't let this get in the way...just make sure youur ex knows that it is over between you and him, and that you wouldn't leave ur current bf for him no matter what.
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Hmmmmmmm?
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Ill tell you from the mans side...its bullshit, keeping it form him is bullshit, your trying ot spare your exs ass beating, I personally as your bf would want to know so I could deal with your ex. My fiance has a ex whos been stalking her for 5 fucking years, he leaves her alone since he and I had a little convo/ass kicking.
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I agree with these guys.. you should tell your bf. Your ex isnt being fair to you in this situation and you should tell him that!
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difinatly tell him. his imagineation might run away with him and he may suspect sumthing worse!honestly is best in this situation. tell ur curent guy about it and he may help u out...as long as he dosnt feel threatened and try 2 go bash the guy or sumthing....
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yer, totaly weird! im kinda in a semi-similer situation.this guy i went out with once about 2 yrs ago ( was my first eva date!) and i have kept in contact over msn. afta that 1st date, we never really got 2getha and weve just sorted out that it was over sum misscomunication on both out parts. i thort he wasnt into me cuz of sumthing he texted me later, so i was anoyed and told him he looked like my brother (which he didnt, 2 piss him off) he took that as meaning i wasnt attracted to him and we just neva went out again....anyway, weve just sorted this out ( and hes been saying 4 the past 2yrs how its a shame it neva worked out with us) but with supa bad timeing, hes got a gf who he loves.....sucks dosnt it. we get on really well. but im doing the right thing, im backing off 4 sure. im not risking breaking them up or makeing the guy i kinda was seeing jealous...my life is way 2 complicated
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honesty is the best policy in any relationship AND if he were to find out, and then know you didn't tell him, that would be a lot worse. Think how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot. Tell him.
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UPDATE: well i told my current bf what was up and he was fine about it. he says he was pissed off with my ex but not with me and he was glad i told him. To be honest as soon as i told him i felt so much better!!!Thanks for the advice everyone appreciate it.....x
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i'm glad everythings okay.
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yay 4 happy endings
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thats fantastic, glad you were up front with him.....